each time i get into a relationship with a nice girl it doesnt last... i mean my longest relationship was only 4 months (i know its a little long but still i would like another relationship kinda like that) ARGH
2006-09-26 12:52:33 · 19 answers · asked by james b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same question as to why am i so bad with the boys.. hey, i think we should hook-up.. hihihihi
2006-09-26 12:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda hard to answer your question without knowing you personally. You know "nice" girls don't always go for the "nice" guy. At first they do, until they get bored with you and want a "challenge". I'm not advising you to be a jerk all of a sudden. But try not to give it your all when you start seeing a girl. Give her a little at a time, to keep you interesting. Good LUck
2006-09-26 12:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by SGTPepe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a relationship with my b/f for 2 years. When i began dating him it was hard because i was used to the 4 month thing. How old are you? sometimes your too young to hold a relationship. Do you take the girl out on dates because they like to hold onto guys that are committed and dont have a date with them once a year.
2006-09-26 12:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Meg Kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It either depends if they break up with you, or you break up with them. If you break up with them it's possible that you get bored of nice girls and are only looking for an adventure, not a long term relationship. It sounds like you want a long term realtionship, so analyze your past ones and look for a pattern. I think it would help if you asked your ex what went wrong and how you could become a better boyfriend.
2006-09-26 12:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months is too long
Until you are financially set in your career, you should keep to this cycle:
1. Pump Her by the 3rd date
2. Dump Her
3. Move on to the next vagina
4. Repeat steps 1 - 3
2006-09-26 12:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you think you are doing wrong that causes this; surely one or more of them have TOLD you. They don't tend to hold back when breaking up.
So take the hints they have left your with and begin to make change, provided they are positive.
If you've been dating tramps, discount their advice!
2006-09-26 12:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose hope. I had the same problem with guys, but now I'm with the One and we're getting married next April. Just keep trying, you just haven't met the right one yet.
2006-09-26 12:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it could be the way you act you could change your personality and maybe the girl would like you more. Just treat the girl as if she was one of your friends except don't be to rough.
2006-09-26 12:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by sexygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more information to answer this question. What happens in these relationships?
2006-09-26 12:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, be happy with what you got. A lot of people dont/have never had a longer relationship before.
2006-09-26 12:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by maddencursevictim266267 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was you I'd try to figure out what I'm doing wrong or that just maybe you pick the wrong girls.
2006-09-26 12:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by 51ain'tbad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋