The guy I like is super flirtatious and I think he likes me. The thing is the other day he told me he doesn't like being in relationships. What do I say to him to let him know that I really like him w/out actually coming out and saying it? Is there any way that I could maybe change his mind about relationships?
Today he started to ask me something, but then got interupted and never finished. Shold I ask him what he was trying to ask me?
2006-09-26 12:52:31 · 12 answers · asked by cmdancer77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When we were talking the other day I was teasing him b/c he was "flirting" with one of my friends. When I was like well she's gonna be there (after school). He was like I don't really like being in relationships and I don't like her.
2006-09-26 12:58:00 · update #1
If he's super flirtatious then he probably has trouble settling down with one girl. I think that you should just follow your gut and if you think he likes you, then he probably does. Ask him what he wanted to say. He may lie, and say it was homework- if you can tell that he's lying, then it's probably a good sign. It may actually be something simple. But it could also be the question you are waiting for. Be sure to let him know with your body language that you are available, but beware... Make sure you don't seem desperate.
2006-09-26 12:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by yo yo grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you the other day that he doesn't like being in relationships what he meant was he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. He's just not that into you...move on.
2006-09-26 19:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he doesn't want to be in a relationship its best not to push him into one, but ask him why he doesn't like them?
And maybe from there you can figure some things out about this guy.
2006-09-26 19:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by fira_kas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak from my own experience...
I didnt want a relationship from a "friend" with whom I was sleeping. She treated me great and appreciated me tremendously...I let her go because of my not wanting to be in the relationship...then when all the REAL benefits stopped, i was lost... So give him what he wants but then let him know that he is going to lose it. Tell him all the things that you have done for him that were beyond friendship.
2006-09-26 19:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by viperlodr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying he doesn't like being in relationships might have been his way of letting you down easy. If he wants to ask you something, he'll get back to you.
2006-09-26 19:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you'd be interested in being just "friends with benefits", but not in a relationship. Once you get your foot in the door, it may just change his mind.
2006-09-26 19:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you SHOULD just come right out with the fact that you like him. Most likely, he will respect your straightforward approach, and if he shares the same feelings, that will set the stage for the next step.
2006-09-26 19:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not want a relationship, the question you need answer for yourself is if you want whatever else he's offering instead.
2006-09-26 19:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you shoudl ask him and that way you could start another conversation with him.. get to know him and become close...
2006-09-26 19:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by smoothie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he was going to say to you....but more than likely you cant change him...good luck
2006-09-26 19:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋