i have a best friend, two actually, and i like one of them...(THE GUY ONE) and i know he is obsessed with my other BFFL and they rn't totally together yet, becuz her mom is over-protective.
but i really like him and i don't know if i have a chance, i mean, he is like in LOVE with my other BFF, so should i tell him? wait till they break up, after he rebounds? or wat?
2006-09-26 12:51:12 · 12 answers · asked by J_girlzz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think about it, is it worth losing ur best friend over,
2006-09-26 12:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case your boyfriend honestly cares for then you she is the merely man or woman you want to handle. You 2 are pals because you share similar intestest and issues. this can be no longer restricted to adult men both. If she respects then you she gained't provide any flirty competion on your guy. If she does then each and every guy you meet will be the same. She needs what you've.
2016-12-02 03:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is your best friend then your know what makes them happy, what makes them sad, you share things and feeling together. So do you think if you took the guy your best friend likes that it would make your friend feel good? Ask yourself," how would it make me feel if my best friend took my boyfriend from me?" And be careful, if the guy is obsessed with the BF he may feel different if he knew you wanted him, knowing you know he likes the other friend. It's better to have two BF than none.
2006-09-26 13:09:29 · answer #3 · answered by carolyn D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends are very hard to come by. If you are their friend, stay away! Let them have their time together. You are too young to start losing valuable friends now.
Peace and Love,
Sasquatch Ü
2006-09-26 13:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ol' Sasquatch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should wait and see how things evolve.if they break up, then make a suggestive pass at him, but not behind your friends back. my partner and his brother went out with the same girl, created some issues but they got over it.
2006-09-26 12:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's worth possibly losing a friend over then tell him you like him.
2006-09-26 12:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_heart_0x0x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you break them up and your friend finds out she is garenteed to be mad at you for a really long time, so just keep searching, there are other fish in the sea
2006-09-26 12:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by hawaiicatlynblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay away,its not your bloke and she is supposed to be your best friend,your not being a true friend to her go find someone else this one would cause alot of problems and people will get hurt
2006-09-27 09:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by sam* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let the bff know and the guy....if you wait any longer it will get worse...just grab your balls (or lack there of) and go for it!
2006-09-26 12:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its not nice, but i think you should hint 2 your girlfriend that you like him, and see how the land lies with her first. hope it all turns out ok.
2006-09-26 12:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by jo w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋