could i still find my self a great guy and how do i do it im only 22 and its been so long that i date
2006-09-26 12:34:01 · 15 answers · asked by katie k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, my friend has 3 kids, and just turned 25, you will find someone. Don't rush it!!
2006-09-26 12:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you've got to find a guy like myself! I'm the type of guy that wants a family, and isn't scared off by women that already have kids. What I would recommend is the typical BS of getting out more often. I wouldn't necessarily recommend the bar scene, or going to clubs (unless you just want to have fun...but dont go there to meet real guys). Clubs are only good for hooking up. Nothing more.
Otherwise, if you are looking for something more serious, I would recommend trying an online dating service, or joining a group or a club. Getting outdoors and being physical, will help you meet others if you have an associate that you can join.
Good Luck.
-the thoughtless ponderer
2006-09-26 19:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by the_thoughtless_ponderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you want to do is develop your person as being great, and the great guys will come along. Strengthen your self esteem, your personality, and treat yourself to a makeover. Spoil yourself by getting your nails and done, and a new hairstyle, then watch out. Being 22 years young leaves you plenty of time for a great guy to come along. Don't go searching for him, instead, help him discover you. This time, put your hormones on hold, and concentrate on bonding with this great guy in other ways. If he's great, he'll understand because you already have 2 children. You may find it difficult at first, but try and interest a guy in the quality person you are at first, instead of your natural physical attributes. Believe it or not. It's much easier for a guy to find someone to get his freak on with, than it is to find a quality individual to relax and enjoy what life truly offers. Don't get me wrong, sex is good! But when you take your time and meet someone who is into you as a person, the sex is fantastic. Good luck.
2006-09-26 20:01:37 · answer #3 · answered by tyrone n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some guys are turned off by women who have children, but there are many who are not. However, you'll need to let it be known that you are available to date. Your friends can set you up with blind dates. Don't expect anything to come about from them, it may, but it's unlikely. Instead, simply view them as an opportunity to gain some exposure. You'll do fine, and will eventually meet the man of your dreams.
2006-09-26 19:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy your kids right now, enjoy being young....go out with the girls every once in a while and when you do, have fun with them...don't pay any attention to the guys out there....be confident in yourself and who you are and one day, when you are too busy having fun to notice....a great guy will notice you....play a little hard to get....this is how you will know he is a great guy cause he will go the lengths needed to get to know you better. If you tell him you have kids and he still takes you out, great! But don't get too involved too fast and keep your kids away from him until you are sure he will be a good person for your kids to be around! Let him know from the get go your kids come first. But for now...your young....take it easy and just enjoy life!
Also....don't listen to all the negative **** heads on here....those guys are jerks....exactly the type to avoid. Its A-holes like them that talk young girls like you into sleeping with them and leaving them with the kids to raise on your own....they all need to F-off...jerks! I'm sure you are a great girl....just from now on be more discriminating and do use the pill....two kids are expensive enough to raise....don't have any more till you are married.
2006-09-26 19:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The so called "luggage" people carry along doesn't effect the right kind of love that will come along for you. You will meet someone as long as you believe YOU can meet someone. For those who think this is corny or plain stupid those are the ones who are your doubters and don't listen to them...Keep your head up and keep moving forward, because the time will come!!!
2006-09-26 19:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Wally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 with two kids
1. You make bad decisions
2. You are unstable and have a lot of baggage (where is/are the father(s) and will they harm me physically?)
3. Will you try to get pregnant to force me to marry you because you feel financially trapped?
2006-09-26 19:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 19:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Concern yourself with what I expect is your busy life with two children. You'll stumble over a winner one day when you're least expecting it. But dont wait around looking for him. Under that circumstance, it will never happen.
2006-09-26 19:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No wonder no one dates you if you keep dropping kids, 22 ..forget it sweetie you will have a **** like a bucket and your life is over, pick a nice trailer park and learn to cook grits.
2006-09-26 19:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Goto Church. Seriously, take your kids with you. The more you go the more people get to know you and I doubt your ever going to find a deadbeat who gos to church. Plus people who goto church are nice people aside from the spiritual benefits.
2006-09-26 19:45:07 · answer #11 · answered by webwriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋