that's awfully petty
2006-09-26 12:16:36
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answered by Princess Consuela Bananna Hammock 5
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The fact that you are even asking that question could indicate that you arent a particularly caring or understanding person in which case you arent a good match for him, so yes dump him.
If on the other hand, you can be caring/supportive but at the moment you just dont know anything about mental illness and are therefore scared about it, Id suggest you do some research.
Just because he is taking anti-depressants does not mean that he will go crazy. Many 'normal' functioning people take them every day and dont kill or attack anyone.
Try and be more open-minded about it if you like him otherwise he will feel ashamed, rejected and therefore even worse than he does already.
2006-09-26 12:29:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Being on antidepressants doesn't mean that your crazy. They are pills that fix a chemical imbalance in the brain, that makes one think more negatively then normal.
There is no reason to break up with him just because he has an illness, you wouldn't break up with him if he had a cold would you?
You need to stick by him! Depression is a hard illness to beat and he will need your support to get over it!
2006-09-26 12:20:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Why breakup with him. He has been responsible and sensible enough to get help for his depression. The tablet will be working soon if they arent already and most course of antidepressants are for months not years. It may be worth trying to find out if there was naything that particular taht caused his depression and whether he has had counselling to prevent a reoccurence. Im sure you would rather he took some tablets that was miserable or attempted suicide and left you wondering why he hadnt spoken to you.
2006-09-26 12:15:23
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answered by jhaod 3
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NO! That's mean! If anything he needs you more. If you care about him... not just because he's hot, you can help him by providing emotional support. If anything, being in a stable relationship can help him because he'll feel secure knowing he always has someone to turn to. Just the fact that he takes pills shouldn't bother you. If there are other things that bother you as a result of his issues, then that's different. Like if you actually do fear for your safety of he's irrational or overly jealous. We're all a little of these things at times but it comes down to what you can handle.
2006-09-26 12:32:58
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answered by roci 2
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This man or woman does no longer choose that could actually help you or also be with you. He merely needs to regulate you. eliminate him and locate someone who has a real job because homeopathy is a rip-off. If antidepressants help you experience better effective you should take them. in case you had a heart disease and had to take drugs to stay alive may you consider about it? may your so called boyfriend blackmail you want he does now? Your existence is yours and that is the merely one you've. you want to take it on your own fingers.
2016-12-02 03:16:30
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answered by ? 3
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most people who are depressed are not violent. why not be a real girlfriend to him and show some genuine interest in him? Your stage 2 beauty (after the first week of knowing someone) has everything to do with being the kind of person who people like being around - geniune - interested - honest - caring - empathetic. Worry more about your depth of character than his possible flip-out. I would think that is what is really at stake here.
2006-09-26 12:18:22
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answered by strike777 2
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Be grateful that you have a boyfriend who is attempting to get help for his depression. Some guys try to hide it with drinking and drugs. Have a little compassion and show support for him. How would you feel if you got dumped because you were depressed? You will make him feel much worse. Most depressed people are not "crazy". Depression is a very common condition that affects most people sometime during their lives. Don't be so immature and shallow about other people's feelings.
2006-09-26 12:16:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Umm, I think he is on antidepressants to prevent him from going crazy- not to make him go crazy. The one major effect antidepressants have on the patients is a lowered sex drive, so if you can live with that, then I would stay- especially if you love him!
2006-09-26 12:14:01
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answered by Katherine H 2
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dont stay with him because hes sexy, thats shallow. you need to be there for him, and if you help him be happy with his life, he'll eventually be able to get off the antidepressants. breaking up with him would give him more depression, try talking to him and working through his problems.
2006-09-26 12:26:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Don't be so naive! If that's the biggest problem with your boyfriend you are lucky! Besides, half of the population is on antidepressants. give the guy a break.
2006-09-26 12:18:56
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answered by Anonymous
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