i love someone and he doesn't care about me he said he loves me but how come if he dosen't care or even call me and when he promise to meet u he canceled the date on the the last min .. when i asked him why he always tell because of his father he is busy with him 24 hours ... what can i do i tried to leave him and forget him but i can't plzz help me plzzzz..
2006-09-26 11:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by pink rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're having trouble breaking up with him, do whatever you can to make yourself feel like you're better than him and that you can do much better than him, OR you can try to see if there really are some family problems(yes, he may not always be busy. There could be trouble in his family, OR he could just be avoiding you) that he may be having and try to help him through them.
2006-09-26 12:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by blahblahblah666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find something else to do for like a week and dont even call him or anyhting and if he calls you to do something tell him your busy. Guys always want what they cant have and maybe he needs to be reminded of that. i think your being too available. like say you love hamburgers from a certain shop, but u dont get them all the time because its too far away, but then they build the hamburger shop next door, its great at first but then u want anything BUT hamburgers because its right there, it loses its excitement to you because u get it ALL the time. So he might love you but he needs to remeber why he needs to be in love with you. get it?
2006-09-27 20:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by katiesmile03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can plan a date with him and make him promise that he will be there if he isnt then u should leave him cuz he should care about you and make time with u if he doesnt cancel then talk about your realashinship and whats going on in both of your lives
2006-09-26 18:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kat. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What were you doing when he said he loved you, and what happened right after that? That should give you a clue as to his motivation and the likelihood that he was lying at the time.
2006-09-26 18:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you have no self-respect.
If you can;t leave an obvious loser like this guy, you'll just subject yourself (and any future children) to the mental abuse dished out by some moronic loser that you "just can't leave"
2006-09-26 18:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look just tell him how much you care for him but you can't play this game and life is to short. He is leading you on my saying that and just move on. Is the phone broke...no...move on!!!
2006-09-26 18:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something else! call a friend , go shopping , see a movie ..anythhing except calling him , wait there is someone waiting for you and this guy is just in the way
2006-09-26 18:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by fuxaround 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. It will take you some time I guess but at the end it will pass. at the mean time try to spend time with your friends or try to do things you like and he doesn't
2006-09-26 18:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by cOSHi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what's going on, plan a day when you can get together w.o cancelling. if you're supposed to be together, love will work its ways
2006-09-26 18:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by L. Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't care now, he will never care. So move on with your life...
2006-09-26 18:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋