I really like this guy but he likes somenoe else. Hes my really good friend.Ive known him forever.I've ask a few friends to ask him if he would ever go out with me(not telling him that i wanted to know). He says it might be wierd. But now i can tell he sorta strating to like me. Any tips on how to get him to like me?Also theres a party this weekend that we were both invited to.(skating party)
2006-09-26 11:31:24 · 12 answers · asked by J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if he REALLY is a good friend that you've known forever, then you can just be upfront and honest about how you feel.
2006-09-26 11:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really difficult situation to be in, "the friend zone."
But it sounds like your really into him, so I'm going to tell you to make a move, if he hasn't by now then he won't so go for it! But you should be aware of all that is at stake. Are you willing to risk your friendship on the chance of a relationship? I don't mean to turn you away from the idea, it's just something to think about.
2006-09-26 11:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be careful here. Preserving the friendship is of utmost importance. You cannot make him like you. It will have to happen through your attributes.
Take your time, relax and continue to be a very good friend. Subtle flirtations would generate more interest, but do not over do it. Since he already knows you like him you have to guard against him taking advantage of that fact.
Don't let yourself become frustrated. Continue to enjoy the friendship and let your magic slowly work its way into his heart.
Don't compete with his girlfriend. always have class.
2006-09-26 11:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get the same way with my boyfriend. women may be flirting with him and he may flirt lower back a touch. yet its going to ensue. yet i'm telling you once he talked about a guy hitting on me and flirting on me he were given great mad. and that i informed him the feeling that he merely felt is how i trust even as he flirts with different women. so that you could both merely sit down and performance a verbal replace which includes her about how shes making you experience, you'll locate a lady to flirt with and word how she feels or you could merely brush it off. i comprehend 2 wrongs are not any further making a real yet its merely getting her to work out how uncomfortable she makes you.
2016-12-02 03:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by dahle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first instinct would be to tell you to save yourself all the drama and angst and move on to greener pastures. But, if he's giving signals that he might be interested, go for it. Smile at him and behave as you normally do and let him approach you.
2006-09-26 11:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know him, surprise him. Wear sexy clothes, not sluty though. Take a shot go up to him, make sure he is in a good mood, make a conversation and ask him what he is doing this weekend. BE FLIRTY!!!!! good luck!!!!!!
2006-09-26 11:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show off your mad skating skills ( i have none, i broke my wrist skating ) just be yourself around him. and have fun. when it seems like the right time, ask him if he wants to go out with you some time. good luck
2006-09-26 11:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Hugh Jass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he looks and or smiles at you all the time in class he says ur pretty and hes allwasy is trying to satnd by u or get the ball you had at p.e.
2006-09-26 11:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to get someone to like you is to let them know that you like them. Dont be afraid to express your emotions to others.
2006-09-26 11:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. i hate it when grls act like someone their not. He probably likes you. Dont worry. you seem nice, so dont get all worked up.
2006-09-26 11:37:46 · answer #10 · answered by skull loner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋