OK so i have been going out with the same guy for about 3.5 years today. And we have done alot of things.But we have never had sex. He realy wants to have it. But i tell him iam not ready to become a parent yet. I am only 16. So i think its too young. But ne ways he says ok. But every time we are alone he will pull out his penis and tell me to suck it and do all of this stuff to him and i do some of the things he tells me to do. So then the last time we were alone we did losts of things we were both naked pretty much i had my bra half way on and he had a condom on so if he were to ***, which he did, it would not get in me. He was rubbing ot all over my body and we did anal, which i did not even want to do but he just did it fast and then he sad lets have sex and i said NO iam not ready so he said ok then he did stuff to me and we were really horny and so he said watch this and i was on the bed and he touched his pines to me he kinda went of me not all the way. So iam did i have sex?
2006-09-26 11:30:15 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK so i did this yesterday. And i popped my cherry with a tampon.
2006-09-26 11:34:39 · update #1
I am not ahure yto okay dids you misseds yours periosds?
2006-09-26 11:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by silvergoldo2 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What do you want? Having sex or making LOVE? If it is having sex, the anal thing is already having it. But if you are talking about making love, you are far from the goal. And way far from how it is suppose to be. The guy is hot to use you as a sex machine, girl! If you want to make love, please do it with love. It is a feeling that too people share to feel good, there is no obligation in a relation! You have to do it when you feel ready for it, and with someone who respects your feelings...
Don't do things just because this guy asks you to! Do it cause you feel horny about what is going on. Is it the way he kisses you, or the way he talks to you... you will know. Something like he gives you the butterflies in the belly! If it is the case STOP thinking and let yourself go... You might not end up marring him = CONDOM
Take care!
2006-09-26 18:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by HBinParis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did have anal sex but you really need to talk to this guy about your relationship because if he loves you he would not make you do things that you don't want to do, you are 16 you are to young to be doing sexual experiment's, you need to be careful and watch out for your best interest. If this guy actually cared about you he wouldn't make you do things that you don't want to do. Sit down and have a talk with this guy and ask him what is going on? and then ask him how do you really feel about the relationship. Then tell him that you think that your to young and everything that you really feel is important to you in a relationship. Trust, communication, and honesty are important and if you don't have that then you don't have much.
2006-09-26 18:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by Swimming cutie24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a poor excuse for a boyfriend, and you need to let him know that no means no, not maybe.I would say that you had sex because you yourself said that he did anal which is a form of sex. You may still technically be a virgin but you have had sex in quite a few ways. Oral sex is not as safe as you may think it is just because you can't get pregnant doesn't mean that you can't get STD's. I think that this guy is a real creep and you need to have more respect for yourself.
2006-09-26 18:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did! I am not sure what part of sex you don't get....because anal sex is sex too! It sounds like he is putting a lot of pressure on you in this area it may be time to take a break. Or if having children is really your only concern try getting on the pill...you can get it at most health clinics. Please be careful! Your boyfriend doesn't sound like that great of a guy if he keeps pressuring you on this topic. To be honest it sounds more like he raped you because you said no!
2006-09-26 18:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by smilestoomuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16 and you had bum sex! but its OK because you've been going out with him since you were 12 1/2.!!!!!! most lads never lucky enough to get the chance after 3.5 years silly girl! most girls never allow the special rear love hole to be touched.The only good thing is he wore a condom! aways aways save sex ,even it it is up the bum!
2006-09-26 19:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by ohhowdareyou69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course - you have described sex act after sex act here. It makes no difference if you are not sure whether you performed the one act that might make you pregnant - everything you did is still sex.
Please look after yourself a bit more - you are still at risk from sexually-transmitted diseases, and you are still only a child (even if now just legal).
2006-09-26 18:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by gellhorn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ... You have had sex....
You had anal sex, oral sex and mutual masturbation.
If you're real question is whether or not you have had sex that can get you pregnant...then probably not. Although your question is a bit unclear. I feel really sorry for you. You are being used by this guy and you are too young for this. Please talk to an adult you can trust. And please think about what you are doing.
Take care of you. You are important.
2006-09-26 18:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by ceasefear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO U DIDN'T AND THE ONLY REASON HE IS THAT HE THINKS HE CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU. IF YOU HAVE DONE ALL THOSE THINGS WITH HIM. TO HIM IN HIS MIND HE KNOWS YOU'LL GIVE IT UP TO HIM. ALSO GUYS HAVE A LOT OF PATIENCE WHEN WAITING FOR SEX. ONCE YOU HAVE SEX WITH HIM A FEW TIMES. HE IWLL PROBABLY BECOME UNSURE OF HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU AND WANT TO TRY OTHER GIRLS. U ARE 16 IF YOU HAVE SEX THAT YOUNG YOU WILL PROBABLY NOT LAST LONG AS A COUPLE. STATISTICS PROVE THIS. GOOD LUCK SORTA.
I LOVE YOU ,
MMMK92
2006-09-26 18:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by mmmk92 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GIRL it sounds like you don't even like this dude
you didn't want to do anything so why did you?
that's why people usually say NO!! IN THOSE SITUATIONS AND TRY TO GET OUT OFF THEM AS FAST AS POSSIBLE!!!
you need to think about what you want and not what he wants.
think of your REP!!!! my gf would never let me do anal as she is disgusted by it and if she don't want to do anything i don't pursuit it
2006-09-26 18:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by darknightmare01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES...I can't believe you are asking that! Grow up! You need to face the fact that you are allowing him to violate you in so many different ways...and you still have not come to grips with the truth.
2006-09-26 18:34:16 · answer #11 · answered by prettybird 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋