I really fancy this guy and we've text/emailed/spoke on the phone - met a few times, problem is hes a massive flirt and he's told me that himself - but he doesn't do anything about it, which is fair enough. He's told me he still interested in me, but can't do anything about it right now cos he's really busy.. Why is it bothering me?
2006-09-26 11:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by scorpion queen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!
If you are insecure and jealous now, imagine what you would be like if you did get it on with this guy!!!
Do you seriously want to feel this crappy all the time.
Your problem seems to be that you are letting him get the better of you, you are giving him the upper hand already - men need to be trained and groomed gently, they need to think that its 'their idea, their decision' etc, when really its 'YOUR idea and YOUR decision' - if you stop chasing him and completely ignore him then, if he likes you enough he will come chasing after you (men love being chased, it lifts their tiny egos and it scares them when it stops), if he doesnt come chasing after you then he was never really interested in the first place so good riddence!!!
Men are not the be all and end all.....................BE STRONG AND MOVE ON GIRL....................get yourself a goldfish!!!!
2006-09-26 11:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nickname 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's told you he's a massive flirt and really busy...I would suggest you move on...I think if he was very interested he would make time for you...sorry if it sounds harsh.
2006-09-26 18:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Saskia M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if a guy really likes you it doesn't matter how busy he is, he WILL find time for you. This is bothering you because you know he is full of sh*t. Find someone else worth your time.
2006-09-26 18:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by italiana2683 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps u are looking for a long term relationship, or maybe u are a one men girl.
If he told u what is his behavior, it´s up to u, stick to him, or go on, and find somebody else.
Good luck
2006-09-26 18:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by chema1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
busy...meaning he`s got a gf already....don't go there do yourself one massive favour and move on take it from someones who has heard every line in the book
2006-09-26 19:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by seeclearlynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its bothering u coz hes left u dangling waiting around for him to click his fingers and for u to come running. if he really likes u hun then hed make time for u. it sounds like hes just messing u about and u deserve better than that
2006-09-26 18:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by extr3mely_crazy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cos hes incontrol of things, and u want him on ur terms, and u cant get ur own way, and he knows how u feel, it would bother me to.
2006-09-26 18:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is love in the air
2006-09-26 18:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be sure its not bothering him lit him go its like this what you cant have all ways gets you down 4get about him
2006-09-26 18:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by sly baken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its bothering you because you fancy him :)
2006-09-26 18:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by smilestoomuch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋