Is it meant to be?

Question

I have been dating my girlfriend for seven months,we were friends for 2 years in college and hooked up at the end.. whenever we get to see eachother, it is like magic and we are so passionate and close to eachother, i get to see her a couple of times per week.. i know that i want to be together and she tells me she does so much we both love eachother, shud i "pop the question" what does everyone think?

Answer 1

This is only a decision that you, and you only can make for yourself. It does sound as if you are both in love with one another but married life isn't easy and needs to consist of more than just love and passion.

Trust, Support, Loyalty, Tolerance, Care, Respect, Fun, Commitment, Communication, Realistic expectations, Nurturing, Sense of humor, Being able to handle conflicts of opinion and solve problems together, are all keywords that you should consider when establishing if your relationship is strong enough to endure the good and bad times cos marriage means that as well as enjoying one another you also have to be able to cope with challenges and all that life will throw at you.

Good luck with your decision & God Bless.

Answer 2

Well seven months isn't that long is it ? I do think you two have found something very special though, you knew her for two years at college. However you only see her a couple of times a week so you are bound to be excited each time you meet. You only see her around eight times a month, for seven month, that's about forty nine times, that would equate to seven WEEKS if you had seen her every day, if you see what I mean.
If you pop the question will you be seeing more of each other???
Remember you will be together every day if you are married.
Maybe you should see a little more of each other first, hey ??
Anyway good luck,what ever you decide, all the best,!!!!

Answer 3

So u want to ask if she wants to get married to you right? hey U've known each other for a while now almost getting to three years, its is worth it but I doubt if she would consider the length of time spent without getting the relationship worth it. Hey it will be coool if she does. I in that situation, I go one step at a time. I mean like talking to her about the past friendship how imoportant it was to her and a lot more of the present and so on.

Answer 4

i would wait a little longer and see her more often first. when u have been together for over a year and have seen each other almost every day, then would be the time to think about it. seeing someone twice a week is alot different than being together every day. if its for real, the waiting time wont matter. its better to be sure. best wishes!

Answer 5

no just wait until you finish college and can move in together. you don't really know someone until you live with them. your both are young, live your lives and enjoy being young and in love because it does not last after you've been with someone for a while. you'll still love each other but it's not that giddy feeling youre having right now that's why alot of marriages don't last because they confuse those feelings with love when in all actuality it's just lust. just wait.

Answer 6

AWWWWW

How sweet and romantic I would wait for an yr and then you can ask her and I hope everything works out for you two you sound like a happy couple which in these days are very rare

Answer 7

You can pop the question..least then you both know how committed you are to each other and you can marry whenever. Very nice story..bless...wish you both well.

Answer 8

I think if you are indecisive enough to have to ask total strangers then you are not ready for any real relationship.
Grow up a bit then make your own mind up.

Answer 9

Yes. Sounds like the real deal to me.

Answer 10

if you really want to marry this girl then go ahead, maybe a long engagement to make sure this is right