there is this guy which i am attracted to you, something about him drives me crazy, i don't know.... he is a sweet guy and i could tell that he cares about me, i want to get to know him, and he has admitted that he is attracted ,as well, we don't do anything because i'm not ready...but thats besides the point, people say he's a druggy and a couple girls hate him and they save that looks are deceiving, should i just try to get to know and see what happens or should i just run away??? i am super confused he has admitted of being a swinger but that there is something about me that he REALLY likes.... so what do i do? and i want to be respected and i want commitment!
2006-09-26 10:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by ...i <3 Xavi... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do whay you feel is right, listening to your friend isnt always the best idea i have learned through past experiences so go with your gut indtinct
hope this helps
good luck
2006-09-26 10:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by sensual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one thing this guy finds attractive about you and that is between your legs.
Believe your friends.....especially if he admitted to you he is a swinger. You are the next port in the storm if you let him in.
You may be very attracted to him but that is because you don't know him. If you want commitment look elsewhere.
If you decide to move forward with him please do not get hung up with him and pay attention to what he is really after. If he gives you a great deal of respect even after a few months you still have to worry about the drugs. Just beware.
2006-09-26 17:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, you want to be respected and want commitment....
And you're interested in someone who may be a druggie and a swinger. I would strongly suggest you find out what kind of individual this person is.....AND have the good sense to pull away if he is indeed a loser.
2006-09-26 17:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a druggy, run as fast as you can to get away from him, he is bad news! It sounds like those girls know something you don't! Take the hint! Please don't be one of those fools who think you can change him. That's a fools dream!
2006-09-26 17:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him for yourself but i would always remember what other people have said about him. if he is a swinger, he probably only wants a sex relationship.
2006-09-26 17:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by widflower35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most resp[ectable girls wouldn't closely associate themselves with a drug-using, swinging, sexually-promiscuous, deceiving, wandering playah-type.
But, if you need to make you curious side feel good, who can stop you?
2006-09-26 17:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well get to know him and try to change his ways then go out with him
2006-09-26 17:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by cierraslove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋