if you were seeing a guy on the down low, and he said he really cared for you but he endes up hooking up with someone that was very close too you. How would you react to this???
2006-09-26 10:14:14 · 28 answers · asked by kc_dgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would hate him, and as for the girl it ain't her fault if she didn't know you like him. As for the guy he was probably not worth your time anyways.
2006-09-26 10:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by Christine M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who he hooked up with. even if you're seeing a guy on the dl, you usually still tell one or two friends, that way you avoid sticky situations like that. I would probably stay away from him from now on...he seems like a jerk that just wants some a s s when he wants it. Dont give it up!
2006-09-26 17:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by spaceyinla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really, but i believe anybody dating another person either on the down low or the up high, there is always a tiny lil bit of attachment(jealosy), and this type of attachment is mostly noticeable when this download person goes for another person not even your close friend.Aint life a B**ch
2006-09-26 17:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by DEJOBO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mad at him, he's not worth the emotion. But the "close" friend would make me furious and hurt. She's NO friend if she's doing this to you. Lose them both...they deserve each other and you deserve much better!
2006-09-26 17:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by south_lido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish them the best. Better to be honest now than later.You would not have wanted to get married and find out. That is why you should not have premarital sex,unless you have known this person for years. Then it is not smart.
2006-09-26 17:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by DEBO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to react. Get away ...far far away. This person does not take life seriously. And thats ok if he doesn't involve you. find someone who really cares about you.
2006-09-26 17:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by lucy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since we guys are always on the prowl for more p*ssy, you'd write off to another man that you move on from.
And maybe that person is not really a friend?
2006-09-26 17:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I'd be mad, but stuff like that's happened to me more that once, so I'm used to it. So, I'm scared most of the time to fall for a crush. But anyway, yeah, I'd be mad, and hurt at the same time.
2006-09-26 17:19:34 · answer #8 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... if he's not the right one for u, u have no reason to get mad... there will be someone for u at the right moment and time. be happy for both of them i'm sure they're both thank u.
2006-09-26 17:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word here is...
DOWN LOW....
no strings, no commitment, nothing. Nope, you knew what you were getting into.
Move on hun.
2006-09-26 17:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by _Savage_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋