ME and my girlfriend had sex for the first time, and she couldn't get me off. She is overweight, but still I don't know why she can't. She is very embarrassed about it and says if it happens again she'll be too embarrassed to have sex with me anymore, please help.
2006-09-26 10:03:17 · 16 answers · asked by Slipknot 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
did u ever think it is you ? overweight women get men off everyday... and are considered attractive by a lot of men. how dare you just assume it is her fault... she has no reason to feel embarassed. check your self buddy. and i am bone thin.
2006-09-26 10:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so before you have sex with her next time, go for a day without masterbating, that would create a build up. If initially you are not that attracted to her, (you must be, otherwise why is she you girl friend), try some foreplay. Let her do the work first and when you are getting to your peak, you take over and do a little more foreplay, then make love to her (not have sex, there is a differnce). While having sex, ask her to squeeze your penis with her pelvic muscles several times. Trust me, it will work. I had a similar problem when I first started having sex and my OBGYN told me about that and since then I have been able to get off any guy I have sex with.
Good luck.
2006-09-26 17:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Diana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if you added no meaning to what happened and what did not happen - like zero - like you brought Nothing TO it- I know it is almost unthinkable cause we are such nutso meaning making machines but IF you brought no meaning then what u would be left with would be what actually happened and just what happened. She did x and y happened. That is called: Reality.
try not adding meaning and from there - maybe you can create something with her that is playful and and fun for you both.
"Getting off" can be very important to young men ( and woman to probably ) ! I wish you both all the luck!
2006-09-26 17:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand you mean your so horney you cant get off of her and you want more or do you mean that after sex your dick got stuck in her and you couldnt get it out if that it. If she is a virgin she might have a small whole and if you have a big dick you could of got stuck or if she isnt a virgin she might just have a small hole down in her vigina.
2006-09-26 17:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Britney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try for-play. The first time its normal to feel shy.
2006-09-26 17:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hi! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Try Viagra!
2006-09-26 17:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is not her fault. Maybe you are the one who is responsible for your own sexual health and pleasure. The worst thing you can do is make her feel bad for your own issues.
2006-09-26 17:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its because you are not attracted to her. We know that guys can get themselves off.
2006-09-26 17:06:58 · answer #8 · answered by busyfingers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using a blindfold.
2006-09-26 17:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by hydroco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are not attracted to fat women, or you are not attracted to women in general. In other words: seek psychiatric help, fag
2006-09-26 17:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋