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Question

i v just had problems this weekend with 2 lad kicking my door and smashing up my car, i hate the place i living as theres always trouble i want to move but my partner is not supporting me im scared of living in the flat i cant sleep and every since i moved there i have been suffering with depression, i have not been taking my medication as i want to get better but now right now i just want to kill myself

i cant stop crying i feel alone and i need help

please help me :,(

thank you everyone im trying not to think of killing myself as i want to do so much with my live im crying reading ur answer some people will think this is pathetic i just need support right now.....and will all ur help im going to take it in and do something about it, i let people walk all over me as i dont want to let people down will i be seen a selfish if i just up and leave

im so confused of what to do

Answer 1

Leave the dipstick behind and move out. You will find a more caring partner soon. He's not worth your declining health and he can't think much of you, he's selfish, dump him.

Answer 2

First of all should you not take your medication? it might help you relax tonight.
Tomorrow visit your local housing offices. Ask to see someone about getting rehoused. Harassment is a reason for rehousing. You could get a letter from your doctor to support your application on medical grounds because your health is suffering. Report all the incidents, boys banging on door, car damaged, to the police. keep a written record of EVERY incident, you need to keep telling the police and the housing, try housing associations also, sometimes you are better dealt with there.
You need your partners support in this, where is he now whilst you are upset??
Do you have a local residents association ? if you do join it. Sometimes a group of people working with the police can clean up a area and make it a decent place to live.
I hope you feel better soon , all the best,!!

Answer 3

Oh you poor girl. Take a step back for a mo and address each issue separately or youll get overwhelmed by it all. First and most important is your health. I dont know if its a good thing youve stopped taken your meds, but top marks for wanting to get better - thats a great way to think. Re the house, its not safe - either physically or emotionally / mentally for you to stay there so tomorrow get to first the bank then the estate agents (renting) office and get somewhere else. Make sure you visit the proposed houses at diff times of the day, inc evenings / after dark (accompanied of course!) to assess if there will be problems with teenagers etc. Lastly, the partner. Hes the least of your worries right now, I say once youve found some houses etc to look at, just tell him thats what youre doing! Stand up for yourself and you never know, he might just follow you! Good luck with everything babe XxXxX

Answer 4

Reading between the lines, YOU KNOW what the answer is, and you need to be strong now, its survival - if you have anyone you can stop with for a short period, in order for you to find somewhere more suitable, your partner will join you if they really care, if not, well, new home, new life, Sounds harsh, but its time for reality, you KNOW what the alternative is, and its not acceptable - is it? Meanwhile, have a chat with a good friend or Samaritans, grab all the support you cant get - wishing you hugs and all the luck in the world! xxx

Answer 5

Take your medication. That's the first thing you need to do. Then when your moods have stabilised you can assess how practical it is for you to move right now. If you feel suicidal contact the Samaritans on 08457 90 90 90, website http://www.samaritans.org/

Answer 6

I have to take daily medication for my thyroid. If I don't I will eventually feel depressed. I have felt that way before. I know you may not feel like it right now, but the first thing you can do to start feeling better is take your medicine. Then you can go talk to a person you feel will truly listen, and tell them how you feel. Tell them that you feel like you want to kill yourself, so that they can help you help yourself. People care about you.

Answer 7

i feel for u hunni.

give me your address and ill bring my friends down and we clean the place out for u so u dont have to live in fear.

remember the krays?? well we sort of like that but we look after people.
most teenagers these days need a good kicking. it bad in most areas now.

no u dont have to give me your address but seriously make it clear to your partner how u fill.

i hope u get out soon or it stops soon so u can live in peace.
anymore problems or u need to chat email me at [e-mail] and i would be glad to help in anyway.

goodluck i mean that!

xxxxxx

Answer 8

u really need to talk to ur partner about moving. u shouldn't live at a place that makes u depressed and feel all alone.

Answer 9

Hello there I'm sorry that you are feeling so down,but you must go to your Dr and have a chat with him/her,as for your so called boyfriend well i would move on,as nobody who cared would allow you to live where you feel so threatened,so please go and talk to your Dr,life is for living but not to be so scared that you don't want to go out,i wish you good luck,take care and make that appointment asap

Answer 10

It doesn't seem as you're getting better without medication. I won't recommend you take it, but I do know it would solve the problem of desiring death. Hang in there.