My boyfriend has a labrador which pooped on the floor and when I spanked him my boyfriend got verbally abusive. When I came home the next day I found that he buried my two cats in the backyard up to their necks and ran over their heads with the lawn mower. I want to break up with him but if I do I wont have anywhere to live. What should I do?
2006-09-26 09:23:02 · 21 answers · asked by SwimChick 1 in Pets ➔ Cats
Go to a shelter. NOW. The man is obviously insane. Call the police and they will call a women's shelter for you. Even a homeless shelter is better than spending one more day with that crazy man.
Remember, how he acts with others is how he will eventually act with you.
People who kill animals may eventually harm people.
If you don't leave you are telling him it's OK to act this way around you, and it isn't.
What did he say when you found the cats?
I hope this is a joke.
2006-09-26 09:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away and fast. Try to stay with a friend or relation who has NO CONNECTION with Sir Psycho and call the Animal Control. Better to stay in a shelter then be dead...and once you leave him, DO NOT answer his calls,recieve mail, etc.... let your boss at work know that a situation has arisen so that if this guy shows up he will be escorted out(you don't have to go into detail, just say he's become a problem and you fear for your safety) and have someone walk you to your car.
The cat thing was a RED FLAG. I am sorry for the loss of your kitties.
Good Luck Sweetie.
2006-09-26 10:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by HistoryMom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm sorry to hear about your cats. Secondly, there might be more ways of punishing a dog other then spanking him. But - what your boyfriend did was defiantly wrong of him. I don't know how happy you are with him, but if you even have to question that, you better get out of there. There are laws against those kinds of things. If I were you, I'd leave for someone you're happy with
2006-09-26 09:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most, if not all, serial killers start by abusing animals. This guy is a very dangerous person and will move on to hurting people, it's just a matter of time. Find a friend to stay with, a battered women's shelter, the YWCA, or even a youth hostel. Then call the police and report what he did. It is illegal and they need to keep an eye on him. If you stay with him, he will hurt you.
2006-09-26 12:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by 0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about whether or not to break up with him... it's called animal cruelty dear... if this is treu you need to get the heck out of dodge and call the police.. next time it'll be you looking down the lawn at a lawnmower..
2006-09-26 09:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You'll stay with a violent, abusive person because you don't have a place to live? Anyone who can do that to animals can definitely be violent to people as well, meaning YOU. Are you waiting until he starts slapping you around? Move out. Move back in with your parents. Move in with friends. Leave the jerk.
2006-09-27 18:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kaonashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would nicely be annoying for you, yet your mom is only protecting you and does no longer favor something to happen to you. Age distinction does no longer count number she will be able to continually anticipate a guy is to previous for you because you're her daughter. And sure your mom would have met your father an identical time you met yours and your mom probable made some blunders that she only does no longer favor repeated to you. only pay interest to her because contained in the top if something does happen to you, you'll sense undesirable for no longer listening and also you'd be apologetic about the outcome.
2016-11-24 20:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by llorens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have parents that you can call? What about siblings? Get away from him quick. People who abuse animals like that have mental issues that maybe havent came out. But if he did that to your cats what do you think hes gonna do to you when you piss him off?
2006-09-26 13:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by crystalyn129 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him NOW. he is not a boyfriend he is currently a boy enemy. What he is doing is wrong and AGAINST THE LAW. go stay at a friends house for a while, dont let him know wer u r staying, call the police if u dont have a house to go too.
2006-09-26 09:33:13 · answer #9 · answered by bittersweet chokolatte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is definitely wrong with him, and if you stay with him, you are putting yourself in major danger. You need to leave him and sever all ties. No looking back. There is someone out there who will respect you and your animals and not resort to inhuman attempts to get you back for reprimanding a dog.
Leave Him, Leave Him, Leave him fast.
2006-09-26 09:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by msmit106 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋