If he is dumb, and doesn't take hints, steer him into it.
You, "I wish I had some ideas for dinner tonight."
Dumb, "Yeah, I don't know what I'm going to have either."
You, "Pizza, burgers, [start listing things until they start resonating with him]"
Dumb, "Or spaghetti, I love spaghetti"
You, "Really? Me too. But where do you like it best?"
Dumb, "Fazollis is nice, but Pasta House is better."
You, "Pasta House! That's soo good, I love their meatballs."
Dumb, "Yeah, and the sauce is just right."
You, "Take me there"
Dumb, "Uh..."
You, "Pleeeeze? Pretty please?"
Then when someone walks by, you cheerfully tell them "[whats-his-name] is taking me to Pasta House tonight!'
Then smile and cheerily go your way after something like a cheery, school-girl "Pick me up after work maybe?" Make sure it is a question. Then skip on with things to do until then, so he can't back out. You gotta make someone else witness the statement that HE is taking you out if you can. It makes it harder to back out.
2006-09-26 09:23:34
·
answer #1
·
answered by Rabbit 7
·
1⤊
0⤋
My 13 teen year old son said that if you are giving him hints and he is not responding, it's not that he doesn't get the hints it's just that he's not into you the way you are him, or he isn't ready! But if you think he is shy and just doesn't know how then ask him! The worst thing that could happen is he would just tell you that he's not intrested!
I hope he helped! It's nice having a 13 year old son who has alot of girlfriends as friends and a girlfriend, girlfriend all the time!
I love it!
Amy
2006-09-26 16:25:25
·
answer #2
·
answered by heart2heart27958 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
A dumb guy eh? Just try talking to him and being flirty. Then look at how he responds and use your instincts to tell you if he's interested in dating you or not. He might be too shy to ask you out in which case you're gonna have to do it yourself. But to be sure he likes you back, be on the look-out for his hints. I trust you're smart enough to recognize those.
2006-09-26 16:18:08
·
answer #3
·
answered by Andrew A 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
Put yourself out there. Make sure he knows you are available. Drop hints, if they work. brush up against him and act like it was an accident, it all ways gets them thinking. be flirty. How old are you? if you are out of school this doesn't work.... make sure you sit next to him all the time, slip notes saying that you want to talk, and then don't show up, make sure you are wearing something intriguing. Give him some time, he will come around.
2006-09-26 16:17:34
·
answer #4
·
answered by Rachel W 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
guys usually eitehr don't get subtle hints at all, or they take the smallest things that mean nothing and make them into something. sounds like you have the first guy. so just keep on flirting, bigger, more. smile. pay more attention to him, do things to him. if he likes you he will ask you out, if not, then he won't. becoming his friend would be the best way so he feels more comfy around you.
2006-09-26 16:15:00
·
answer #5
·
answered by 47skittles 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
I guess that classifies me on the same level as him! If he cant ask, then rather you bite the bullet and take a gamble. 99.99% of the chance is that he will admit his feelings for you aswell; though do it yourself and dont have a friend do it for you, makes it hard for guys (if you get what i mean)
Good Luck!! and wish me luck aswell as I am going to ask this girl out finally after 1 year. (wonder who said "patience is a virtue")
2006-09-26 16:24:50
·
answer #6
·
answered by shafique_khan83 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
ask him out if he is too dumb to ask you out....or if he is that dumb why bother with him! if he cant take a hint he is going to be that dumb when the two of you go out. you are going to have to be direct with him
2006-09-26 16:14:47
·
answer #7
·
answered by The Weed Fairy 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
Step up and be a woman. Ask him out. Its just that simple. Guys aren't always on top of things and they don't know when a woman is hinting. Just go up and ask him.....geesh
2006-09-26 16:13:45
·
answer #8
·
answered by jancegreen 2
·
1⤊
0⤋
Girls don't make their "hints" clear to a guy. I mean want do you guys do to let him know you like him. Simile? You migth smile to other people. You need to make it clear you like him and it's safe for him to ask you out with out him thinkin of the possialblaities of you not likeing him. Firt and say he's sexy and that your single. Wave to him and blow a kiss or something, something that will let him know jess you girls make it to hard!
2006-09-26 16:18:29
·
answer #9
·
answered by JayX 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
Take your shirt off and give him a big kiss. That would be an awsome hint.
2006-09-26 16:14:39
·
answer #10
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
1⤋