i have been together with my bf for a lil bit over 2 yrs. we been through so much together. he has his ways though he ttreats me wrong sometimes always want me toprovide 4 me. i think he's been cheating on me cause he acts different. I love him to death though with all my heart.
2006-09-26 09:10:35 · 15 answers · asked by hifi2u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gurlfriend, please don't do this to yourself. If you (a woman) thinks that he is cheating on you 9 times out of 10 he is. I know that you love him with all your heart. Try and discuss your worries with him and if he is the man that you fell in love with he will listen to you and try to do something about your worries. And if he does nothing cut you losses because you are worthy of a good loving man, who only sees you.
2006-09-26 09:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u so in love with someone who don't treat you right, expects you to provide for them , and you think they are cheating on you. HMMM!!! I'll tell you what you should do, kick his silly behind to the curb, ya'll been together 2 yrs. do you think he gone change. Heck no is the answer. Things will probably get worse, see we woman let our emotions overpower our common sense. He knows how you feel and he is constantly pushing you to see how far you will bend before you break. Love is not suppose to hurt, make you feel bad, cry or none of that. Maybe you've mistaken love with something else. Lust? Or you don't want to be alone? If you stay with him you will only resent yourself, and eventually all that love will turn to frustration, anger, and eventually rage. Get out while the gettin is good. Do what is gone be best for you.
2006-09-26 16:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some time we get attached to someone even when they treat us wrong we stay with them just cuz we hate the thought of being single again. However one must have enough self respect to move on if our partner A: dont treat us right B: is cheating. There are plenty of guys who will treat you with respect and be faithfull to you. Youll never truelly be happy untill you move on so do it sooner than later.
2006-09-26 16:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes life can be so difficult. Do you want to be with a cheater? What if he gets a disease and then transmits it to you? These are things that can effect your whole life. You better rethink your love for him. It's hard but I think it is best just to set him free. If he cheating then he doesn't love you. That's my own personal experience. Good luck and God Bless.!
2006-09-26 16:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not sure about where your relationship is going and tell him that you love him, but you will let him go if there is someone else. The best way to show a man that you love him is to let him go. Maybe a little distance will do him good. Good luck.
2006-09-26 16:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him go and understand that YOU are the most important person in YOUR life. I went through the same thing years ago. I found that my life was much better after I let him go. You will heal and meet someone who will put you on a pedestal.
2006-09-26 16:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by LBG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's beeing unfaithful, he probably has been for a long time or has before. If you really think he can stop then confront him and forgive him. If not then I would suggest to break up with him. It's better to hurt now and still stick up for yourself instead of letting him continue to hurt you and you end up looking like the dumb one.
2006-09-26 16:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u SURE he's cheatin,dump him.Life is full of ups n downs my dear u tek da good n da bad if u rili love a person.Only u kno da answer2this.
2006-09-26 16:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by soft heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never find happiness with a man who cheats on you. You deserve better. Dump him and find a man who deserves you. Don't let love blind you to reality.
2006-09-26 16:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is find someone that treats you right and wants to take care of you no woman needs to be taking care of a man like she's his mothers find a good guy
2006-09-26 16:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋