Guys, your & a girl are flirting, doing some hanging out, you think she's nice & pretty. Would you prefer to have her ask you out one of these two ways:
"So, when are we going out?"
or
"You want to go out with me?"
Or does it really just not matter?
2006-09-26 08:52:17 · 12 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well either one would work. The former is a bit aggressive, but that can be a good thing because it shows that you're really interested in going out with him. It makes your intentions very clear. The latter is a question that's more cautious and attempts to twist the pressure around onto the guy you like.
I would prefer if a girl asked me the first one because it shows what you want very clearly and a bit more dominatingly because I would be told we're going on a date, not asked whether I want to or not. But that's just me. I don't think there's going to be a world of difference between them.
2006-09-26 09:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Andrew A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful about HOW both of those are asked. I really don't think the wording matters so much as the delivery. If you laugh too much he may think you are joking and not give an honest response. There is nothing wrong with asking straight up too
"Would you like to go on a date sometime?"
2006-09-26 15:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Skiball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really matter...but it really depends on the guy. MOST guys, would like either question.
Personally, the 1st one is direct, and would only use it if you are pretty certain you are going to get a yes answer. Otherwise, the response could be more than you want to hear.
I would go with the second if you are not 100% sure.
2006-09-26 15:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by brianwerner1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't really matter but I would prefer the second one. The first one sounds like you are asking me to take you out, like its something i'm obligated to do. The second one sounds like you want to spend time with.
2006-09-26 15:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jason S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You want to go out with me?"
b/c even if the guy does like her, than i would feel more comfortable her saying that because it shows that she understands if i dont feel the same way and shes not just thinking about herself.
luckily i dont have to worry about that b/c i already have a loving girlfriend :)
2006-09-26 16:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by undertakerk789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl is asking, it doesn't matter how as long as it is straight forward.
2006-09-26 16:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ones an assuption that u are going to go out together, the other is asking if you would like to go out. (the first one is cockier and the second nicer)
2006-09-26 15:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by slyshewolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesn't matter cuz' it eventually will lead to something like that....tell her how i feel....ask her if she feels the same way...den ask her out....but it's not easy as it sounds
2006-09-26 15:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by $c@Ndal0u$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like #2
2006-09-26 15:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIKE A GIRL TO SAY TO ME
"NO I PROMISE I WONT TELL THE COPS JUST DONT SLIT MY THROAT"
2006-09-26 15:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋