in the summer, a boy from my school started txting me and said that he liked me alot. well, my parents found out and they got pissed off, so i had to stop talking to him because i was 14 and he was 17. now that schools started and i see him every day staring at me, i cant help but miss him. i dont kno wat to do cuz my parent will kill me if i talk to him, but i really want to talk to him. i kno i shudnt like him, cuz hes older, and he did drugs, but all the things he said to me were so sweet that i overlooked it, and now i cant seem to get over him
2006-09-26 08:45:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your young, you will get over him soon. At your age, every "love" is "the one." If you look in the "right places," and for that guys that will like you as a whole (physically and as a person) you will find many more guys to tell you sweet things.
Have fun, go out with friends, you will meet many more guys!
2006-09-26 08:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by nowhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see why your parents didn't want you to see this guy. Just because someone talks sweet doesn't mean you can overlook a serious problem like drug use. I realise your parents may not even known he had used drugs. If he don't use drugs I would wait another year for my parents to approve of us dating. If not someone else will come along. This guy has made some poor choices in his life. One choice was to do drugs. If he did it once he may do it again. in the meantime stay away from him because you will be tempted to disobey your parents. If he is not off drugs you will find out from your friends. Watch what I say. Listen to your parents they know best.
2006-09-26 08:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi if he really like you he will wait for you, if your parents are so against you dating someone older that you then wait till your 16 and if you still have the same feelings then work something out. There is no harm talking to the guy, all he is doing is telling you how he feels and your parents are making it hard for you as if they keep acting this way you may feel insurcure to date anyone when you get older. Just be friends for now. If he is true to you then he wont mind waiting, but if there is no chance of your parents giving him a chance it may be better for you and him to go seperate ways.Just talk to him as a friend someone your age may come along and you will forget about him.
2006-09-26 08:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
our first love is always the hardest...... we dont know how to react or act of feel..... but I respect YOU for the respect you are showing towards mom and dad...... and now days, that is a rare thing indead..... I am proud of you my little one..... you are young, that is the bottom line , and you have plenty of time for romance and love..... ask you parents if you could just speak to this boy once, to explain things to him and let him know how things stand...... if he truely care he will wait till you are older and will be there then..... ask mom and dad if he can prove himself as worthy, old fashioned but, can you maybe at least double with him when you turn 15 ?? work it out with parents..... God bless
2006-09-26 08:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid him as much as possible. Go find a hobby, study more in school. You should be worrying about the books and not the boys in there. Good luck!
2006-09-26 08:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went throung the same exact thing wid my mom i was 13 and he was almost 17.. he was awesome! i still talk to him...so just tell your parents you guys are only friends if that doesnt work go behind your parents back and talk to him cuz if you really like him so what you cant help who you like right??
2006-09-26 09:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do it if u ever got married to him hipatheticley or even if u have just gone out with him for a while he may get u to star takin drugs
2006-09-26 08:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by tanner s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your course and you will get over him. Start talking to other boys your age.
2006-09-26 08:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by jdimmitt22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like em
go out wit em just dnt let em get in ur pants
i have alot of seniors tryin to bang me and im ur age
u just gotta think outside the box and dont make stupid decisions
good luck!
x
2006-09-26 08:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i woul sack him off i used to go out with someone who was older and did drugs but it turned out to be a very bad idea
2006-09-26 08:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by mardwarp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋