There is some girl that I have been talking to for the last 3 weeks or so. Then yesterday, she caught me staring at me then I looked away. Now, today, when I walked into the classroom, she was putting her head down. I am guessing she doesn't want to talk to me because she knew the message that I was giving her yesterday. How am I suppose to tell her that wasn't the message that I was trying to give her? Well, yeah, I do find her attractive and everything but I do not want to give her that message yet though. What do you think I should do?? I want to be friends with her first so I can have someone to talk to and hang around with in school.
2006-09-26 08:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Shy Guy!
Have you ever considered the possibility that the girl you admire is also shy? That's the first thing I assumed when she put her head down. Or, she could be tired or sad or studying or a million different other possibilities. I just don't think you should give up because of that signal. Just keep talking to her in a light, friendly way. This way she will have no grounds to outright reject you and make you even more gun-shy of girls. Eventually, I'm sure she will start sending you undeniable signals that she wants to take the relationship deeper with you.
Good luck! I remember those days at school well... And glad they are over.
2006-09-26 08:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by JennyF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a smile next time you see her. That way, she knows that you don't hate her but a smile doesn't obligate you to anything. If you want to be friends, strike up a conversation. Even if you think she's pretty and might want to date in the future, just talking to the girl doesn't make boyfriend/girlfriend. Just so you know, girls respond to a guy who are confident. Good luck
2006-09-26 15:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by LunaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoothe move loser. now you know what you do not do to actually get a girl. Now that you know that is a mistake, you should always apply lesson in the future. Never stare at girls that you are interested in or else they will think they are creepy and you will not have much of a chance to make friends with.
2006-09-26 15:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so just carry on. If she doesn't like to be stared at, don't stare at her Just talk to her as usual. Don't act like you have done something wrong, when you haven't. Most of us have been caught starring at some time or another.
2006-09-26 15:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well OK so just because she put her head down doesn't mean she doesn't want to talk to you maybe she was having a bad day, or maybe she was just tired.
and just cus you looked at her doesn't mean you asked her to marry you, it just means you were looking at her that's all.
if she asks why you were looking at her just say there was something on her clothes like a string or something that didn't belong there and it caught your eye.
but trust me a look is just a look your ok it will be fine
2006-09-26 15:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try using words to communicate with people not looks. When you use your lips combined with your tounge to form these things called words people can understand you better.
Get over it, life is short, just talk to the girl.
2006-09-26 15:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by PilotTim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that. Tell her you just want to be friends to see how things work out. and if she likes you then you can go out. Tell you want to take it nice and slow. Tell her yes you were checking her out and you were sorry. tell her its hard for you not to notice such beauty. tell her you were thinking you would be the luckiest guy if she even went out with you for just a day. Tell her you just couldn't get up the courage to ask her out. Tell her that she is al you want in your life oh bring roses trust me she will for give you
2006-09-26 15:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink that u should go up 2 her and talk to her............maby she was having a bad day and thats y her head wuz down........don't assume before you know........just talk to her 2morrow about your home work of something...........if she talks back to u and smiles and stuff then she wasn't mad at u......if she avoids ur ? then thats why she had her head down.........hope it works out for you:)
oh and don't listen to that guy up there that called you a loser...you aren't
2006-09-26 15:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by pink_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that you like her alot and if she like that way you want to be her friend ok
2006-09-26 15:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her, no other friends, just her and you alone
2006-09-26 15:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋