The other day my boyfriend and I went to go see Jackass 2. A guy in a wheel chair rolled all the way down the side walk. ( a very long way) and told me I was pretty. My boyfriend tells me how hott I am and how he is scared that maybe I will leave him. All my friends family and strangers tell me I should be a model. BUT heres the catch... I dont feel pretty I hate the way I look... and I just really dont see it like everyone else. Should I like see a doctor or something? I really wish I was someone else. HELP!
2006-09-26 08:42:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont think of it that way, be happy that ur good looking if ur boyfriend is worried its probably because he knows that he probably should be treating u better then he has and then u deserve if another starts to take interest in u maybe it will help him snap out of it and treat u the way u should be treated. so then u wont have any reason to look else where in the first place. Ive had a similar problem with my boyfriend ive had two years when ever he gets insecure its always cuz other guys are commenting me about my looks, but i love him and not going anywhere anyway, wish he would realize that
2006-09-26 08:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by CHERRYSCION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh...i'm the same way! it's a sucky feeling. a lot of women feel that way b/c of HollyWood. You see all these beautiful women and compare yourself to them. Your b/f probably made the comment about how an actress is good looking and it gave you a complex about yourself. If it gets you in depressed moods then you probably do need to see a doctor. I use to put myself waaay down and people didnt understand why. It could just be a self confident issue
2006-09-26 15:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound extremely self-centered. No, I'm sorry to say that, but it's true. You need to stop being so concerned about how you look- or don't look- and start counting your blessings. If you can't do that, then maybe you need to see a psychologist.
You may have a condition called body dysmorphia, where a person becomes so obsessed about their appearance that it may completely take over their life.
So... do you want to get over yourself and live your life, or do you want to take the "disease" road and start going to shrinks? It's your choice. Decide how you want to be. You're in control of your own thoughts.
2006-09-26 15:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes .. I think u should se a psychiatrist ... the problem with women is that just 1 guy thinking the world of u is never enuff.
Tom Cruise & Brad Pitt are not gonna call ... and u dont look like Angelina anyway probably .. get over it ... and be happy with what u have.
2006-09-26 15:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just have a little self love, look in the mirror once a day and say "i'm pretty" but dont let it go to your head, dont feel lame though every girl stuglles with this, and you dont need some one else to tell you your pretty for you to think it or for it to be true, love your self first
2006-09-26 15:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to go see a counsler to help you build up your self esteem. I use to feel the same way. But I found out that I was beautiful on my own; It's like I stood up for the person I knew that I could be but whom I was too blind to see. You could do the same thing.
2006-09-26 15:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by Stasia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you listen to models talk, or read their stories, you quite frequently find that they are not pleased with their appearance. The same is true of actresses and actors. There's a parallel in very large men who don't see themselves as threatening.
2006-09-26 15:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah you have accept the fact that you are pretty. seriously I am like that I am a very attractive guy and women throw there slef at me all the time but i dont feel it. Its kinda weird. But what I have now learned is just relaxe and love your self
2006-09-26 15:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made u the way u are u should except that u may not see what other people see but if they say ur pritty than u must be. dont feel lame
2006-09-26 15:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're under estimating yourself. you should be proud of the way you look, and that you're getting all sorts of compliments. your looks are gods gift to the world, take their suggestions, start modeling, it'll be proof to yourself that you're beautiful. you have an average life today, but who knows, you may be the top model of tomorrow. a lot of it comes from your attitude. be confident. :)
2006-09-26 15:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋