My boyfriend and i have been talkinging for almost a year but the thing is she hates him the last time we argued is when she kicked me out of the house now i'm living by myself, but my bf wants me to live with hime and at the same time my sister is still trying to break us up or rather have me leave him what should i do?
2006-09-26 08:40:29 · 14 answers · asked by Randisha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not enough detail. It sounds like you have told your sister your business at one time or another and she has negative feelings based on what you told her. Does she have reason to hate him and are you grown? If you are going to be with him, tell her to stay out of your relationship and if you do say that, don't go running to her when something happens if you want her to stay out of it.
2006-09-26 08:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by TIRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start messing with her life but that would cause too much conflict, talk to her tell her you really dig this guy and even tho she don't like him, it's not up to her to choose for you, you are an adult and can make your own decisions and that she should leave you alone.
give you some space. she makes you uncomfortable. you can also ask her why she hates him so much.
Don't move in with your boyfriend unless you have really thought about it I mean really think it thou because you life won't be the same. you will have to change alot of things that you would normally do.
2006-09-26 08:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take your bf side ,,sooner or later she will see that you two love each other,,I know that maybe you are expecting for people to tell you to take your sister side but maybe she is jeloules that she does not have some one like your guy,,,,,, she should be happy and if you get hurt then you will learn from you r mistakes,,, have you try to talk to her? do you know how all this hate started? and have you try for then to talk to each other, your sister should understand what you are going through,,,,
2006-09-26 08:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why your sister hates him. Maybe he is no good for you. If you and him dont get along it may be a sign that he is not the one for you. Maybe your sister loves you but is trying to help you see that this guy is a jerk. If you know that this guy is good for you than try to convince your sister. Tell her why you think he is good for you. I am sure she is just trying to look out for your best interest. This is what sisters do. If she didn't care about you she would make it easy for you to be with this guy.
2006-09-26 08:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing why your sister does not like him it is not possible to patch things up. Sometimes love is blind and maybe she sees him for who he is and there are major red flags. OR maybe she is jealous OR maybe you are too young OR maybe she loves you very much and no one is good enough OR......
You should go out to lunch with her in a neutral place and have a girl talk with her. She is your sister and will be so forever. I hope that you can patch things up with her.
2006-09-26 08:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in with boyfriend.Talk to sister.Figure something out 3 of you at a table invite sister to eat with you guys,but don't tell her boyfriend will be there.
2006-09-26 08:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and sisters are going to related until one you dies. You need take sister out to lunch or dinner to discuss why she so passionate about breaking you and boyfriend up. Tell her you appreciate her concern and support.
2006-09-26 08:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she wants to end it with you to. she may have some good reasons, but if she doesn't tell her that this is your life not hers and you give her respect in her choices and she needs to give you respect. if that doesn't work then you will have to choose which relationship you want more, your sister or your boyfriend. but try to talk it over with her its only fair to give her one more chance
oh and good luck that's a tough choice
2006-09-26 08:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your sister is jealous of you. Tell her how you feel and don't take any disrespect from her a**
2006-09-26 08:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to grow up and get a life! Its not her choice who you are with. Geeeze what a skank!
2006-09-26 08:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋