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i really really like him. we have been together for 4 months and for these 5 months ive told him to grow up and stop doing drugs.... but he wont listen to me so its time to show him the cost of what hes doing..... how should i say goodbye so that he knows if he changes i will take him back? please help

2006-09-26 08:40:26 · 8 answers · asked by ♥SUGAR♥ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

8 answers

All you can do is tell him exactly that - you love him, but you can't stay with him while he's ruining his life. Tell him that, if he decides to clean up his act, you'll consider taking him back - assuming you haven't found someone else by then, of course.

Perhaps the thought of you being with a mature, responsible adult will make him realize that you can and will do better without him holding you down.

Other than that, there's nothing you can do for him. He has to want to stop, and losing you probably isn't going to be enough. Do yourself a favor and move on. If he comes back some day all cleaned up, and you're available, give him a chance, but do not wait for him to change. As long as he knows you're there, waiting to pick up the pieces, he will remain a needy child.

2006-09-26 08:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Robby216 4 · 1 0

he has to quit for himself and by you telling him that he has to quit it's not going to work. The best thing you can do is break up with him and let him find a reason to quit.

2006-09-26 15:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 0 0

tell him exactly that. Stay out of your life until you are cleaned up. You need to practice tough love and stand by what you say...

2006-09-26 15:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jay G 4 · 0 0

If he changes so that you will take him back his changes will mean NOTHING. He has to change for himself, whether he ever sees you again or not.

2006-09-26 15:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0 0

get him to go to N.A. and stop being so self serving. help the guy don't hinder.

2006-09-26 15:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Let him go and be a druggie somewhere else.

2006-09-26 15:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 2 0

if you say it's over then mean what you say

2006-09-26 15:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0 0

B***ch, who made you the frequen boss?

2006-09-26 15:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by wedged15 2 · 0 1

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