i was wondering why i cant***when i have sex?

Answer 1

Some women have a difficult time reaching orgasm during intercourse. It's just how they are. If you can reach orgasm via masturbation, then there's probably nothing wrong. It's just a matter of relaxing and forgetting about all the distractions and just enjoying the moment.

You may want to google "female masturbation" and practice what you find. Once you learn to bring yourself to orgasm, you can teach your lover exactly how to do it for you.

Answer 2

Yes foreplay will help u. He needs to focus on ur sensitive spots, nipples whatever it is. If it helps, use a toy too. They have these vibrating rings that stimulate the clit while ur having intercourse. lol we just use this vibrating toothbrush, much more powerful. Actually i have no problem getting satisfied, I'm a minute girl can get one in 2 minutes. Well, try masturbating, open ur mind to sex, maybe it'll help loosen u up so you can be more relax . Thas all the advice I have. Good luck!

Answer 3

the best advice here is to ask your special someone not to be so selfish when it comes to lovemaking, because you cannot enjoy the entire experience with him when he is.

Remember, the way you need to be loved begins with soft sensual kisses and plenty of intimate touching all over your body. You also need to feel that the person you are making love with allows you to feel this too. It is very important that you become very aroused and wet too, before you have intercourse too. That involves alot of this for a period of time before intercourse.

Once you are relaxed, aroused , and wet , you can only begin to really enjoy a good orgasm , the way you should, and the way you should always have them. It is entirely up to your partner to provide this for you and your there to make sure that they do it right!

Answer 4

First of all, to some of the people that replied your question..."EVERY women can reach an orgasm and ***.

For some women penetration alone will not do it. Some women need stimulation during penetration. In simple terms have him play with your G-spot while he is penetrating , it will allow him to get some pleasure of his own as-well.

Explore your body alone (in private); so many women are afraid to pleasure them selves. Men do it all the time why can't we?

Find what turns you on the most while exploring your G-spot, and then introduce it to him.
Have FUN!!!!!

Answer 5

Its a very personal question. Take a quiet afternoon and seriously think about what in your past and current situation prevents your allowance to feel pleasure during sex.

Answer 6

Not all females can and sometimes it takes rigorous and continual stimulation of both cl*t and g-spot. Try different things and relax. Often if you are too worried about having one, you won't be able to.

Answer 7

You may need a little finger help during sex.

Answer 8

Your partner has not found the right spot. Try moving around a bit or show him where it feels good. Tell him to use his fingers as well as his manhood.

Answer 9

your g-spot is either hard to reach or he isnt lasting long enough.

1. prop a pillow under your butt before you begin.
2. if that doesnt work, then try different positions.
3. if that doesnt work, then touch your clitoris as if you were masturbating while he is "doing you" and that should do it.

Answer 10

Whoever you are having sex with isn't pleasing you. You need to tell whomever it is that you deserve to be pleased first. That way you know you will *** because they will want to *** to. You know what you like let whomever know.