I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now, and I need a few subtle ways to turn him on without seeming forceful. Any suggestions how to help him get the idea that I'm ready for sex?
2006-09-26 08:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Caged10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men just don't get subtle. No idea why, but we (or at least I) don't. Taking your clothes off is a great way to start things. You could also stick you hand down his pants. Or, just ask him if he wants to have sex.
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2006-09-26 08:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by Echelon Right 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
notice the difference in men's answers and women's? The ladies are telling you how to be subtle. The guys are telling you don't bother. Im a guy and assure you subtle doedn't always work with guys. It may just confuse him. Just tell him what you want or grab him "somewhere special" and maybe he'll take that hint.
2006-09-26 08:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rudy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to men this is probably the only thing that's easy: TELL HIM! Men are stupid and you'll be disapointed when he doesn't get your "subtle hints", so just put it out there.
2006-09-26 08:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by T S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how long a while is ... but maybe u have a higher sex drive than he does.... or there are other problems that u r not mentioning here.
2006-09-26 08:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he likes to drink buy his fav. and chill it then bring him a glass. or start massaging his neck and shoulders esp. if he's had a tough day, then just start nibbling and placing light kisses on his neck while u rubit that should work just fine always has for me
2006-09-26 08:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by CHERRYSCION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subtleness is a waste of time... just start getting undressed, he'll know what you are impying.
2006-09-26 08:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Music,dirty dancing,sexy clothes
2006-09-26 08:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massage every part of his body with some type of warming oil
2006-09-26 08:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing and touching will lead to a lot more advanced stuff.
2006-09-26 08:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? He's a guy!
All ya gotta do is tell him, and he'll be there!
2006-09-26 08:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋