I met this man a couple months ago. He moved here from New England - Boston area. He's Irish through and through. He makes me laugh constantly, he's charming, a perfect gentleman, good job, awsome dog, loves kids. I already feel like I want to spend the rest of my life with this man. I want to give him a son. I can't get him out of my mind - he's even in my dreams. The thing is, I just got out of a very long relationship with some one that treated me like ****. I know this is not a rebound thing. But I have never felt like this before. Is it healthy to feel like this already? He feels the same way about me too.
2006-09-26 08:30:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it girl. If he makes you laugh and swoon then go for the moment. You never know how much time you have left in your life. Take everything you can get out of it, it is now that counts, not what might have been.
2006-09-26 08:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of the bad relationship as the set up to make you truely appreciate what you've got now. It is not too soon, there is no definitive time line. Some people experience rebounds, some people don't. I think if you were treated badley before, you would be extra cautious this time around. Sounds like you have found someone special. Take your time, get to know him really well, and if it works for you guys, start planning a future. Love is great!
2006-09-26 08:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello I herd a good bit of advice the other day it said that ' Some people get confused between Lust and Love ' Maybe in your case you are just lusting after him at the moment because he is someone different from your previous partner. Don't rush into anything to serious just enjoy each others company and have fun dating. Go out and about and do things together and have a good time, get to know each other first. Then all the other thing should fall into place as time goes on.
Hope that helps good luck and I hope you have a nice future together. Take care Miss T.
2006-09-26 08:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Miss T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings never lie. They just get confused. If u truly know that's the guy u wanna be with and hes not just a rebound maybe ignore him a day or two and if u still feel the same way do what u wish. Give that man the son he deserves. Good Luck!! and Congratulations!
2006-09-26 08:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never felt this way about someone before, then it's not to soon. You sound mature enough to know what you're doing! Go for it! I'm not saying go out and get married, but if you feel that strongly about this man, then be with him. You deserve to be treated like a queen and not like ****. I definetly don't think it's "unhealthy". Everyone's different. Some people wait 2 days before jumping into another relationship and some wait 6 years! Go for it.
2006-09-26 08:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same with the man I'm with....we just knew we were right for each other. It's one of those feelings you can't explain and have never felt before!!!! I just say follow your feelings and your heart, you will know exactly what you want. And don't ever base your past relationships on this one, that will cause some issues later on....forget the past and move on with what you have now the way you think you should.
2006-09-26 08:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I was with an a**hole, who was very abusive for 12 years. I left him and 2 weeks letter met my fiance. And 3 years later we are still together, he is the sweetest and funniest man I have ever known. He told me after a month of going out that he loved me, and at first I was like no way. But I did love him, and tried to tell myself just like you are that it isnt possible. But follow your heart, and dont listen to what any one else tells you, there are a lot of people who dont think you can fall in love that fast, but just do what you feel is right. And it sounds like you already are.
2006-09-26 08:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kuiper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no time line and your heart don't either so too soon or wait is up to you I fell in love with my second husband in about 2 months and we are going on 5 yrs and counting still just as happy as the first date. You have to look at the situation and make the decision if you are truly in love or if you are just happy because he treats you the way you want to be treated
2006-09-26 09:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not -- get married, have babies :-) ...... It really is hard to say. I am married now to a girl that I moved in with only 1 month after meeting. I would HIGHLY recommend getting pre-marrital / pre-child counseling though, because it all seems great now, but the real person in both of you will eventually come out, and if would be better to try and resolve those differences now, rather than when you both feel "trapped".
2006-09-26 08:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Brian D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow! ....whether you feel it or not the rebound factor is there. Go on some dates..have some fun....but don't start ring shopping and making babies until you've given yourself at least 6 months together. Sounds like your on the right path...just don't rush the arrival...enjoy the journey. Best wishes for a prosperous future in your relationships!!
2006-09-26 08:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋