well this guy and me were "talking" for a long time...well...it was like 3 weeks. and he was nice and a gentlemen and everything but i only saw him as a friend. but then he asked me out and i thought about it and i said"what do i got to loose right?" well now i think he's in love with me and i want to end the relationship cause i want to be single and i dont ever see him cause he's at work so what now
2006-09-26 08:27:05 · 17 answers · asked by dizzle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him he's not the kind of guy you're looking for, or, take the easy way out: fake a seizure, tell him it never happened to you before, blame him. I recommend the first one, but it's entirely up to you, good day.
2006-09-26 08:34:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you got to loose????? the answer is A LOT of time if you're not careful.
You're having doubts after 3 wks, end it before he gets too involved. Better now than wait till his feelings get too deep. And trust that fact that he has not fallen in love with you, he may be infatuated but not in love. He doesn't know the difference right now but will when you call it quits and it won't be so bad. Just do it fast.
2006-09-26 08:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest to yourself and to him. Seems to me that your problem isn't that you don't like him, but the fact that you don't see him due to his work. Plan a "chat" date. Go some place quiet and talk about what's on your mind. It's only fair that if you were friends before dating that you at least give it a chance to be friends after-wards. I dated a girl twice in a span of about 6 years and we're still friends. But the both of us sat down and talked about eachother's concerns and moved forward from there. Remember that in life a "good" friend is hard to find. Also, you never know when you may have to rely on the person you hurt. You may hurt him today and he may be the only one to help you tomorrow. Think things through before acting. And like I said.... talk to him. Communication is a must. You obviously care about him or you would not be asking us for our opinions. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 08:35:36 · answer #3 · answered by drifet_18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So end the relationship don't drag it on so that he gets more feeling for u just tell him the truth. I should all work out unless hes crazy. And if he is good luck to u. j/k
2006-09-26 08:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 00:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by gaidos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you have decided against being in a relationship right now.....that you want to be single
2006-09-26 08:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There IS no "relationship" when it's one-sided like this, so there's nothing to end. Just tell him you don't feel for him what you think he feels for you and you can both go on your INDIVIDUAL ways.
2006-09-26 08:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him the truth, and as soon as you can
It would not be right to string him along, after all you said he
was a nice guy.
2006-09-26 08:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move with him or else he'll belong 2other girls beau. He is a great guy. Dun miss dis oppurtunity or else u will feel regret.
I'll support u.
2006-09-26 08:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You should be honest with him. You shouldn't feel bad. Think about yourself and a little bit about his feelings. Wouldn't he appreciate your honesty? At least you wouldn't be leading him on.
2006-09-26 08:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋