nothing had really happened...its just tht from the present situation i have assumed that the personi like doesnt like me back.... he is my very good friend... actually should i say he was my very good friend.. its like now that he is in a new country he is behaving different and not like the person who i saw be4....i told mailed him that ill miss him showin my feelings (he doesnt knw 100% that i like him... mebbe has the hint) but he did not reciprocate his feelingns nor did appreciate or tell me ya that he misses me too ..
thinking that how close we were be4 he left for london he shouldnt have behaved like this... i feel betrayed and now feel like he just was a TEMPORARY friend..he mite be yet ADJUSTING there but if he were a true friend he would have definitely mailed me once telling me about what he feels..even when he comes online i am the one who starts the conversation.... i was going to tell him my feelings...hes my good friend but lookin at the present condition what do i do??
2006-09-26 08:11:28 · 6 answers · asked by so sick of love songs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we flirted.... we did some serious personal problem talking.... he became my councellor... he helped me in my problems.... he was always there for me... but now hes just........ im going crazzzyy
2006-09-26 08:23:51 · update #1
When you see him come on line, ignore him. After some time he may get concerned. Consider yourselves as two ships passing in the night. Let it go for now. Out of sight, out of mind. Make new friends.
2006-09-26 08:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally guys dont express their feelings to girls (specially to their close ones)... You say he is (was) a very good friend, and as you say there is nothing happened between you, so I assume he didn't tried anything...... he is in a totally new place now the job might be different, different kind of people.... give him sometime so that he can settle down there...... He was here when you needed a friend, might be he is in the same situation where he needs a good friend who can support him.......
It will feel vey hard when you dont hear from someone very close to you... but you have to give some time... Be calm... concentrate on other things for sometime.... Dont be in a rush......
2006-09-26 08:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it sounds like he doesnt even know that you were interested? Did you ever have any intimate moments? You said nothing really happened? I dont quite know what you mean...you guys just flirted or did you hook up? I think you were trying to send out clues to him and that he was just not getting the point! He might just look at you as a friend and not seeing anything else. Its too late now, you just need to move on and get over this guy.
2006-09-26 08:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is painful and aggrivating and heartbreaking too..... but just let it float for a while..... send him an e mail now and again , just to let him know you rmember what ya'll had and say hi... leave him alone on line..... let him adjust to his own beat..... there may be more than meets the eyes or ears when it comes to his feelings..... he may need to think and file some info in his head and heart..... so just relax and stay a friend for now..... later, you might have to make some decisions, but for now, like I said just let it float....... God bless
2006-09-26 08:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i have seen all your questions.... give that guy a break.....he may be settling there, feeling alone..... and you are going on and on and on... give him some time.....just for two days you feel that he is not your friend...and why do you feel you were a puppet... has he used you for something.....
i know you miss him and all..............but give him time to breathe.... don show that you are so eager to talk to him..else you may lose him...and learn to keep patience.....talk to someone..divert your mind a bit......remember that he is there for something which ll help him a lot in his career...try to be helpful to him...behave like a good friend.....and not a pain in the ***........
take care
2006-09-26 08:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be real friend without any romantic feelings. would make u confident self respectable minde personality. smile love urself. then he will likeu. dont put ur headache onto him. first decide what u want from him. better solution is GET OUT OF THAT RELATION FOR LONGER TIME. IF HE PLEASE U THEN ONLY BETTER TO RESPOND. UNTIL THEN GOD GIVEN PWER OF FORGETTING IS BEST OPTION.
2006-09-26 09:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come
2016-11-11 19:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋