My husband and I have a group of mutual friends. He knew all of them before i came into the picture. Long storty short. 6 years of knowing one of these "friends" he comes onto me at our house party after everyone is fast asleep. He is a big guy & seasoned drinker. My husband and a pal say he was just drunk. And when my husband confronted this "friend", he claims he doesnt remember it ever happened. I think he's full of it. Your opinion please?
p.s. he has been grabbing at my stomach everytime we meet for the past 6 months.
2006-09-26 08:10:03 · 16 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I would bet money he remembers and most likely will do it again.
BTW, listen to "judith r" down the line, this is a classic setup for a rape. nip it in the bud, nxt time he touches u be very forceful and loud.
Oh and i think your husband is a jerk for standing up for him.
2006-09-26 08:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by WhiteHat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a black-our drinker it is possible that he doesn't remember... however even black-out drinkers often regain some memory of events.
Personally I don't believe this person doesn't remember and he defiantly has no right to grab at your stomach.
Your husband should not have picked his friend over you on this issue and that highlights to me that there is some lack on your husband's part.... either ethical/moral or he is someone you would be better off without.
Are you and/or your husband drinking too much? Has drinking caused other problems in your life?
2006-09-26 15:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he is JUST DRUNK, you may not be so lucky. Do not allow yourself to be alone with this man, and if he ever touches you again tell him to leave you alone, very loudly. what he is doing is setting you up for a rape. He WILL force himself on you, and then say that you initiated it using the fact that you let him touch you in the past, and the fact that he was drinking to get away with it.
2006-09-26 15:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this guy needs A beat down!!
I think I have A simular situation, our friend I've known longer than my husband, is always complimenting me on my clothes and cooking and I catch him sometimes looking at me he's A good guy but A little too much
2006-09-26 15:19:48 · answer #4 · answered by April A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if he remembers? Your husband should stand up for you and ban this person from your house. And of course he remembers otherwise he would not be graby with you.
2006-09-26 15:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you alone with him when everyone else is asleep? You say this is ongoing behavior, yet you chose to be alone with him. You teased him didn't you. You led him on. You need a spanking.
2006-09-26 15:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by homo.jesus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person does not need to come over to your house, drinking or no. No disrespect intended, but your husband needs to tell this person to not touch you, no ifs, ands, or buts (no pun intended)
2006-09-26 15:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by Not perfect, just forgiven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go all the way with him? Free love! He thinks you're hot. Take it as a compliment.
2006-09-26 15:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that Jesus fellow that a lot of people talk about.
2006-09-26 15:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. Crucify him.
2006-09-26 15:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋