I'm in love with a guy I've only been dating for 4-5 months...we are both in our late twenties and this isn't just lust! How do I go about telling him? I guess I'm concerned about his reaction since our relationship is still pretty new....any suggestions?
2006-09-26 08:06:58 · 8 answers · asked by aak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him. Sometimes we worry so much about what others will think. If it is true, all will be ok!!
2006-09-26 08:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by mgdrobert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out until it feels mutual. If it already does, perhaps tell him that you think you might be falling in love with him and notice his reaction. Maybe he just needs a nudge.
2006-09-26 15:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him you cannot expect him to say it back or be disappointed if he doesn't. Or maybe to soften it and so that you won't be to heart brokend if he doesn't feel the same is to before you actually say those 3words something like " John Doe - I really really like you and I think I'm truly falling for you " and see what he says or how he reacts
2006-09-26 15:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by slaright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing to do is tell him and see what can happen him say he isn't sure if he feels the same can't hurt to try it
2006-09-26 15:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you id wait till you feel that hes ready to hear it...... if your questioning it than its definitely not the right time!! if you think this is the one you don't want to run the risk of ruining something good... good luck and GOD Bless<><
2006-09-26 15:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him!
2006-09-26 15:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to take a chance. if you tell him and he leaves than it wasn't meant be.
you just have to tell him no other way around it
2006-09-26 15:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screme to the heavens "I love you"
2006-09-26 15:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Enthusiast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋