If you have to ask US, then the answer is NO.
2006-09-26 08:01:17
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answer #1
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answered by Truth Hurts 6
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Hi when my boyfriend asked me to marry him i said yes straight away as i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, But by the sounds of things you dont feel the same way, it also depends on how long you have been seeing each other. It doesnt matter about the age as long as you love each other. If you want to really bad and think you too young that is the only reason not to get married, dont think this way, age doesnt matter if your in love then you know its the right time to get married. Just think your relationship over, think how you would feel if one day he wasnt there, would you be uncontrolably sad, or not botherd. But i think it was really sweet him getting down on one knee, plus getting engaged doesnt mean getting married straight away you can leave marrage as long as you like.But no to long
2006-09-26 08:34:57
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, I wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers how to decide your future. But my advice is to ask yourself if you could stand to spend the rest of your life with him. You didn't say how long you've been together, also... I'd say try to go for at least a year. It gives them time to get the real person out.. incase they may be hiding it. Ultimately though, I'd say this question is dependent upon your own decisions.
2006-09-26 08:04:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Honestly if I was him and you didn't say yes right away I wouldn't give you the opportunity to say yes again. If my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years asked me to marry him I would jump up and down and immediately say yes.
2006-09-26 08:04:14
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answered by Anonymous
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If you don't absolutely feel head over heels for this guy, and also think you want to marry him, then the answer has to be NO. It's very flattering to receive a proposal, but don't take it lightly. You're being asked to make a lifetime decision. And if you aren't sure, then suggest you give yourselves more time. You simply aren't ready to consider marriage at this point.
2006-09-26 08:03:07
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answer #5
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answered by Arnold M 4
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Do you love him? Does he love you? Does he treat you good? Do you picture yourself with him forever? Is he your world? Do you have fun together? These are things you should take into consideration before saying yes or no. Is your man a good man? But if you don't want to marry him, then don't lead him on. It's not right and he has as much feelings as you do.
2006-09-26 08:03:10
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answer #6
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answered by Rica 82 5
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I would be shocked too, because sometimes you don't really know when they'll propose. I would say yes, because if you can see a future with him and love him. For better or lose for richer or poorer, till death you'll part. Really think about it before giving him an answer. Good Luck
2006-09-26 15:35:06
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answer #7
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answered by sandysweet 2
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If you love him YES but you have to be mature and weigh in other factors. DO you spend most of your time arguing? Does he have a future where you will not struggle financially. Are you each others sole mates? Does he spend most of his time building you up and supporting you or tearing you down and belittling you. If you can asses your relationship and all seems to be well , then go for it!!! I wish you the best.
2006-09-26 08:03:41
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answer #8
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answered by NICOLE J 3
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If my boyfriend asked me to marry him I would say yes. We are 25 and 26 though. Only you know in your heart if its right or not. I would tell you to wait until ur older, but like I said, only u can make that decision.
2006-09-26 10:27:15
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answer #9
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answered by Krissy 4
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it depends on the situation. Everyone and every situation is different. Search your heart to try tofind the answer. But if your really not sure what you should say, then i would say you should probably say no, or at least put things on hold and gain s ome perspective as to why you are unsure.
2006-09-26 08:02:00
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answered by Autumn M 3
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If I loved him more than words could express and I couldn't see myself spending the rest of my life without him then I would say YES!
2006-09-26 08:01:08
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answered by shae 6
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