Is it possible for a man in a relationship, in love with his female partner, to still fantasize about and want her to have sex with another man in his presence?
2006-09-26 07:50:00 · 5 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I know it's possible, but is it common? Is it "normal"? Can he still be in love with her?
2006-09-26 07:52:49 · update #1
It's normal.
Everyone is different.
Everyone has different fantasies.
This may be a fantasy of his own that he would like to try.
But, keep in mind that it is YOUR decision.
You do not have to do this.
If you feel uncomfortable, don't stress yourself on it.
Let him know how you feel.
2006-09-26 07:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Jalena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has been with you a long time, and you are certain that he loves you, yes, because almost every man i ever knew wanted to see two women, esp their wife and another woman, performing sex in front of them.
i honestly think that we have not evolved far from caveman behavior. a man tends to have more than one woman if he can get away with his game playing and lies (to you) because it is all related to his age-old need to "spread his seed," to make many babies that are his, so that the strongest ones survie to the point whereby they too can hunt and help him in his old age. men adore their little girls, but they put them into "their place," which is, of course, to serve the man. and sex is the best way to serve the man, so sexually powerful is he. men think about sex at least 57 times a day on average, while women think of it about 11 times a day.
i'd not do it because the other female and i, i believe, would feel used by the man, used for his own pleasure rather than our chosen pleasure just with him. but you can do it, a lot of gals do. are they happy? is their husband happy? or does he want you to do it more and more and more, until he gets to the point of asking you to attend orgies with him?
good luck. personally, i do not want my beloved to ever ask me to do it. i like exclusivity.
2006-09-26 08:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We will never understand the male psyche.
I think it has something to do with the fact that he loves the woman so much that he loves seeing her being pleasured in anyway possible.
2006-09-26 07:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as stated before all people are different. The final decision to make is always yours. If you say yes, make sure you are willing to go through with it. If you say No, stand by your decision. After all it is your life and no-one elses.
2006-09-26 08:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by mgdrobert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have all kinds of fantasies, some much stranger than that. i wouldnt worry about it if that is in fact what it is, a fantasy.
if he talks of making it reality then that is something else entirely, still doesnt mean he doesnt love you, but is that your bag?
2006-09-26 08:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋