How do i go about bringing it up to my GF? she says she loves me but sometimes I question whether she is willing to start planning a future and settling down with me. Have we reached a crossroads in our relationship? What should do?
2006-09-26 07:43:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't that called marriage?
2006-09-26 07:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 100% sure that you are thinking more about the future than she is. She has to be good in bed. Cuz that's when guys like us fall way too hard for them.
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2006-09-26 07:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you want a future you have to propose every thing else is talk which equals nothing.If you havent gotten married why even buy a house.Its fruitless.Living together means nothing so if you give nothing then you should exspect nothing.How is she supposed to feel secure?At least propose.I know now a days everyone trys to convince us marriage is just a peice of paper so sometimes we shack up and accept it because we think its what you want to hear.The truth is and I do this with my boyfreind too some of us act like we dont care if we are married but some of us deep down are just acting because we dont want to be the one to propose.Bottom line if you give nothing in a relationship how can there be any future?We want futures we want health insurance and life insurance if you die what does she get?Nothing.If your not married to her how are you really showing her you care about her future?Do you know how heart broken these women are who shack up and then the guy passes away at 40 and they dont get anything to even live on while they get things together.Living together is BS.
2006-09-26 07:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely do NOT make a major investment (like a house) unless you are sure you have a committed relationship. If you really need the investment, you have to consier doing it alone, with her just 'moving in'. But don't depend on her unless she's in the relationship with both feet, and you are so sure about it, you don't have to wonder if she's willing to plan a future. You're obviously on a different plane than she.
2006-09-26 07:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely relax, take a sturdy tub, placed on some sturdy cologne and enable it take place even though it self... have you ever been with a guy in the previous? if so, purely turn around the area and that's it, you be attentive to what you like so which you do the comparable on your buddy. sturdy success and experience. and and take care. (secure intercourse)
2016-10-18 00:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should NEVER buy a house wiht someone unless your married yet! because then if you break up theres huge battles over a house and.. bla just so much trouble you could avoid... but talk to your girlfriend about it ...
2006-09-26 07:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by im just me.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start throwing her little signs, like bringing home magazines for home buying. put them in plain sight and i promise the subject will come up.
2006-09-26 07:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like the relationship is not going to last i would tell her its over
2006-09-27 09:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't invest alot of money if she is just your GF, even if she "loves" you. and like that dude said ..sounds like marriage
2006-09-26 07:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont commit to buying anything until you get an i do from her...make sure she is willing to commit to you before you commit yourself to anything lifelong with her
2006-09-26 07:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by DarkJester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋