Especially when a woman already has kids when she meets him & he's really nice to them. My woman seems to call it neglect towards her, which makes me laugh. What do you women think?
2006-09-26 07:38:39 · 29 answers · asked by henryskia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is sweet, but at the same time a little creepy. There is a stereotype for males who play with children- either gay or a perv- but if I had children and introduced a man to them, I would want them to bond and the way to do that is through play- so you see a no win situation. I think your woman might have other issues that surface when you play with her children, she may be in need of professional help to help her work through these and will need your support as well.
2006-09-26 07:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think with her having kids she is definetly craving some alone time with you. The woman probably barely gets any and you might be trying to include them too much. If that makes sense. OF course it turns her on. She just needs some you and her time to show you. Be sure to include her and touch her. Hug her alot be very affectionate so she knows you are into her and not just the kids. She is jealous it's normal.
2006-09-26 14:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is a turn on to most women especially if you already have kids because obviously she comes as a package so in order to be completely in her life you would have to spend time with her and the kids. and its best if th kids like you to.
2006-09-26 15:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It makes my heart melt every time I see my man making my nephews giggle and play games with them. I have a 15 yr old and he gets along great with him (which is hard to believe). It makes me love him even more, if that's possible. To find neglect in something so wonderful is selfish and childish. To bad there are not more of you out there.
2006-09-26 14:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....i dont know about turn me on and I dont have any kids of my own, but i know that when I see a man play around with kids or works well with children it makes me become more attracted to the man.
2006-09-26 14:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not really turn me on but it make my heart open up more to him to see how good he is with the kids this is showing me he really care and get along fine with kids.
2006-09-26 14:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......
I have no kiddos, but I did have a "child" of sorts...my only "child" which was my horse. When I saw one of the riders out at the barn work with my horse, and I saw how much they "bonded" and seem to flow together with such grace, my heart just melted.
I know it's a stretch, but I can empathsize with women who do feel warmly toward people (male or female) who seem to be kind and loving toward their kids. My biggest concern is that I have read how pedafiles (spelling off) kinda act that way to get close to the gal so that they can get too close to the kids. Just a side thought.
All in all, you want people to like your kids and treat them kindly.
Jealousy is unacceptable.
When my grandpa was widowed and remarried, the new wife made darn sure that he spent time with HER kids & grandkids, and essentially TOTALLY alienated Grandpa from getting close to us grandkids. I would have like to of known him.
That is all. Thanks for letting me sound off. :)
2006-09-26 14:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a woman but I can tell you that my current girlfriend has told me that the main reason she went with me was because her kids liked me.
2006-09-26 14:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it turns me on. It just lets me know that he's willing to step in a situation that most men or women wouldn't want to step in and he's most likely there for the long run....
If I had children and he couldn't respect them or treat them like they were his kids then I wouldn't date him!
2006-09-26 14:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is good for a man to like children. I feel if they like each other then it could make a potential relationship grow stronger
2006-09-26 14:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋