i had sex for the first time with my girlfriend, and i was good, but i want to make the next time be the best it possibly can be. any advice on what girls really really like? i know everyone is differant, but every little bit helps
2006-09-26 07:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by eecc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you want her to be the center of your attention. Don't focus on your own pleasure. Make sure you make her pleasure your number one goal. Create a romantic environment with candles and romantic music. Purchase a nice, fragrant massage oil and give her a sensual massage making sure to take your time.....kiss her all over....her neck, shoulders, her back.....run your fingers through her hair......then work your way to kissing her mouth and begin to kiss her passionately gently biting her bottom lip, gently running your hands down her back...
Then work your way down to her breasts, kissing each one gently then take one nipple into your mouth and gently play with it with your tongue to arouse her, bite it a little..breasts are very sensitive and are a point of arousal....
Once you feel you have her aroused you can slide your hand down her panties, if they aren't already off and tease her until she is even more aroused....you want to build up sexual tension.....
After that it is up to you what position you would like to try with her....alot of girls like to be on top or like it "doggie style"....you need to see what feels best to her....Good luck!
2006-09-26 07:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her you're making an effort to make it nice for her. Some sexy music playing softly in the background, a candle or two, making sure she has a pillow behind her head... these little touches can mean a lot and really add to the mood.
Focus on her, take it slow, and let her know there is nowhere else you'd rather be and nothing else you'd rather be doing than being with her.
Ask her to let you know what she likes - every woman is very different here, and she may be too shy to tell you explicitly or may not know herself, so explore together!
oh yeah, and don't forget the condom! safe sex is the best sex!
2006-09-26 07:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate ask her what she likes/doesnt like express what you do or dont like with time you will get better and better and instinctively just know but for now communicate make suggestions on things you would like to try things you've heard of but dont compare to previous partners or specific people!
2006-09-26 07:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explore every inch of her body and let her moans guide you to what her extra special spots are. You will learn what works for her.
2006-09-26 07:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can figure this out for yourself if you pay attention to her responses when making love to her. Get out of your own head and pay close attention to her actions, sounds breathing etc., and you can tell.
2006-09-26 07:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by irongrama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do make it come from your heart. It's not a contest. It's a matter of honestly caring for another.
2006-09-26 07:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice and tender for the first couple times then you can turn it up a couple notches....
2006-09-26 07:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on her.
Loooots of foreplay.
2006-09-26 07:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, ask your girlfriend. What trips my trigger may not trip hers.
2006-09-26 07:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends hon you should always use protection that will show her YOU are responsable and be gentle ok God bless!!!
2006-09-26 07:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋