So I have been with my boyfriend for a year and some months... One of my girlfriends seems to like him... The twist is she is dating my boyfriends brother. So she is always around... She has a history of cheating. She always says hot fine he is or cute. And she always makes it a point to shake her *** in front of him and makes sure he is looking at her. My boyfriend rarely looks. Should I be worried about him or her? What should I do?!?!
2006-09-26 07:35:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your boyfriend should make a comment about her...not you. It would only make her happy if you said something, but it would embarass her if he did. Maybe he could say something like "I feel sorry for my brother" as he puts his arm around you and pulls you closer. Just a suggestion!
2006-09-26 07:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl is no friend of yours. Tell the brother that she has a history of cheating and she says your bf is hot, and shakes her butt in front of him. Occasion makes the robber, so don't hang around this person with your bf.
2006-09-26 14:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by Homey Da_Clown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to be respectful around your man. Don't be worried about losing her as a friend because if she was really your friend she wouldn't be shaking her *** in front of your man. I wouldn't really worry about him but she needs to change or something. Maybe if you tell her how you seel she might change if she doesn't kick her *** :)
2006-09-26 14:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Address this problem to your friend. I know for a fact, that I can trust my friends being around my boyfriend. Thats why they are my friends. If you can't trust her then how much of a friend is she really. If she has a problem and wants your man, then (1) she's not your friend and (2) tell your man; She's dating his brother, maybe he needs to kick her to the curb if she's really loose like that. You should ditch your friend too b/c she's not your friend.
2006-09-26 14:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to sit her a$$ still and you don't appreciate always trying to be the center of attention. He may bite, he may not. She sounds like a skank, who would definitely try to sleep with your man. You have to be mindful of the company you keep, and what does her boyfriend have to say about how she acts?
I do like the suggestion of having you boyfriend say something and pull you closer. Hmmm....., that would bust her bubble!
2006-09-26 14:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by TIRED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you trust him. Just don't be overly dramatic about her actions and make yourself seem insecure. I would keep a good eye on your so called "girlfirend". She is obviously very insecure to have to shake her thing to make sure she gets attention. Maybe her man isn't paying as much attention to her as yours is.
2006-09-26 14:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to cheat he's going to do it with or without your girlfriend, & if he has half a brain in his head then he's not going to cheat with her anyway, because girlfriends talk, plus he may think you put her up to it as a test.
Either you trust him, or you don't. You decide!
2006-09-26 14:41:31 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u say yr boy friend never looks then u have less to worry.... and if she is your "friend" then just casually speak to her one day removing the topic of her being with her boy friend... tell her how much u love yr b n how much he loves u back.... get her jealous... then ask her how intimate she is ... she definitely wont be able to stand hearing all that... she definitely get the hint of what u are trynna say....
god luck and GOD BLESS =)
2006-09-26 14:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him to stay away from her and don;t talk to her but if he love you he will never cheated on you but if not maybe not her but it will be some other girl next time make sure your bf is in your control
2006-09-26 14:46:49 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a good chat with all of them, if you feel that this so called friend of yours is going to try it on with your bf then you need to let them know.
2006-09-26 14:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋