by my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years so that he could pusue an online relationship w/ someone on the other side of the country. Now he gets angry when he finds out I've been going out- what's everyone's opinion?
2006-09-26 07:24:58 · 29 answers · asked by Slutlana 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we had one of those on and off relationships but lived together, and he still pops in whenever he wants to... especially on drunk weekends if you know what I mean... some say he's doing this to come back but I'm not sure I want him too.. help!
2006-09-26 07:54:51 · update #1
we broke up in March and he STILL calls and "stops by" whenever he wants and argues w. me- but if I call him I'm being annoying
2006-09-26 08:45:04 · update #2
It sounds like he has a control issue. Like he wants to be able to do what he wants but doesnt want u to do anything incase is other endeavors dont work out. So that he can come back to u. I wouldnt worry about his anger problems. Just continue to do what makes u happy, because, u are not with him anymore. U can do what u want. If in the end, u both want to work it out, fine. If not, then thats ok too. Just do whatever u want to do. See whoever u want to see. You are single just like him. There is no law stating u cant see other ppl if he is doin the same.
2006-09-26 07:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by scorpioangel22 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have an idea to give your ex boyfriend a little message about how you are going to conduct your life from now on.
You approach him, smiling. Ask him how he's doing - the idea is to get him off-guard, relaxed.
Also, notice the position of his legs. Ideally the feet should be 8-15 inches apart for this to work well.
Make that smile just as big as you can... It's time...
Bring that knee of yours up with as much force as you can muster and make sure it hits the little bugger square in the yarbles.
He'll probably yelp, he may stagger and groan, but he'll most probably fall on the ground, holding his area.
At this point you lean over and whisper into his ear...
"Ex-boyfriend"
FP
2006-09-26 14:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a moron honey! It's his loss if he's that dumb. My neice did the same thing while she was in Germany, she was there because her husband was in the Army, she was on base there. To make a long story short, she was getting involved with a guy in Morocco, her husband is divorcing her now. He found someone nice while in the service-now SHE'S mad!!! He deserves better and so do you........next.. Don't let him back in, if he'd do that to you online, he's do worse right there with you nearby! Kick him to the curb-thanks goodness you didn't marry him girlfriend!
2006-09-26 14:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to continue to do what is reasonable and what make you feel better after something like this.
If you have the finances, go shopping, go out to eat or if doing something for someone else makes you feel better volunteer at a animal shelter or adopt a puppy to have some company around.
2006-09-26 14:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ayla_Trip 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-26 14:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy has NO RIGHT to tell you how to live your life if he has so obviously moved on. What's good for the goose is good for the gander girl!
He probably feels jealous and wants to have his cake (girlfriend far away) and eat it too (also have you hanging on). Do yourself a favor and get out of his life!
Unless you always want to be the third wheel, possibly the fourth or fifth one.
2006-09-26 14:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That online relationship will never work especially cause it's long distance. It's not very fair either that he can do his thing and gets mad at you for doing your own to move on. I would not even worry about what he thinks since he's the one who dumped you.
2006-09-26 14:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Kit Cat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still talking to him to know that he gets angry? I think he's selfish, he gave up a long-term relationship to persue a new one. He thought the grass would be greener on the other side.
2006-09-26 14:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by TIRED 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, do you! Life is too short to be worried about what your "ex" thinks. He made the decision now he can live with it, I hate to say it because it would not sound like positive advice but I would flaunt it in his face. He would be so vexed when he realized what he had!
2006-09-26 14:37:51 · answer #9 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a bit of a numpty, youre better off without him.Also go to places different from where you normally go like in the next town etc.
2006-09-26 14:33:34 · answer #10 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋