I went to get coffee this a.m. and the guy making my coffee asks if I want whip cream....all kinds.... all over? Then he said he was just joking!? Do Guys Joke like this ~ or did he say out loud what he was really thinking??
2006-09-26 07:20:29 · 25 answers · asked by urbanbutterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is cute. He has worked there all summer. I'm not interested, but I was pretty embarassed!!
2006-09-26 07:32:25 · update #1
What?! Thats unbelievable! Regardless of how he meant it you could have taken it differently especially being a paying customer there's no excuse for supposedly joking like that!
2006-09-26 07:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by pezzle9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy joked like that with me when I was buying coffee I'd report him to the management. That's not a joke, that's sexual harrassment. Yeah, he was thinking out loud and speaking with a mouth attached to no brain!
2006-09-26 14:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by shazaam4sure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be very into jokes but usually when they do it that way it has some truth.if a guy who doesnt know you said that to you it means he is defenatly interested in you and his coment was a way of transmiting his message to you.i say try see him again and see what happens you never know maybe you will get more than just a coffee next time hahaha.good luck.and ask him for his phone number if he seems interested in you next time!!!
2006-09-26 14:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Pagen 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guy was just being a dick. A real man wouldn't do that in a public place, especially if he was the employee of the establishment. I would have said something to the manager. If I found that some guy did that to my girl, there would be serious issues.
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2006-09-26 14:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably really thinking it. Doesn't mean it wasn't meant as a joke as well.
(All the people who think it's sexual harassment - I don't get it. Are you saying that anytime anyone ever flirts with someone then it's harassment? Seems a bit unfair.
At least one of the perks of working somewhere like that is that you do get to interact with customers sometimes.)
2006-09-26 14:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by DS 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would have told him you didn't appreciate him humore this morning and asked for his manager. Regardless if they joke like that with friends, that's not a way to act toward a stranger and a customer of your business no less! If guys think that way, keep it to yourself. It's like he was running around with his pants at his ankles, ya know?!!?
2006-09-26 14:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men think some of the stupidest things are funny. Like harassing women. Yes, they joke like that.
2006-09-26 14:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have cursed him out (unless of course he was cute, and then I would have said yeap whip cream all over with my husband)!
2006-09-26 14:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably both. I mean i like to joke but i am usually not serious well its usally a mix. But I would never cheat on my girlfriend. Either way when i do have agirlfriend i dont say any thing like that to any one but her.
2006-09-26 14:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋