i have been seeing my boyfriend for like over a month now. i go to his house every saturday practically. his parents dont have a problem with it and neither do mine...............he wants to fall asleep with me on this saturday and i kinda want to fall asleep with him too just to see what happens but im afraid something else is gonna happen and im only 15. he tells me he doesnt even think about that right now bcuz we have only been dating longer than a month but isnt the first time usually not planned? im kinda confused..do u think i should fall asleep with him?
2006-09-26 07:19:02 · 26 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have never felt this way about anyone and i think he is the one............................im just confused on my feelings
2006-09-26 07:39:53 · update #1
WAIT
2006-09-26 07:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of All, Your Parents And His Parents needs To Be Beat!!!! And No You Should Not Be Laying Down With Anyone, Epecially Since You Do Not Have The Maturity To Fully Understand The Consequences And Reprocutions Of What May possible happen.
GGo Talk To Your Mother....NO, Not Your Mother , She Is An Adiot!! Some One Elses Mother, Hell Any Ones Mother But Your And You BOYfriends.
2006-09-26 14:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Nakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think it's kind of a big deal or may lead to something, why jump in? Why don't you both wait for a better time when you feel more comfortable and I'm guessing, you wouldn't have to lie to your parents about where you are. (that could wreck everything). You have all the time in the world to fall asleep with a man...
2006-09-26 14:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know he's lying if he says he dosnt think about getting laid just because you havent been going out for long. All guys think about that trust me i am a guy. I really want to fall in love but i am honest about wHat I thnink. I wouldn't fall asleep with him because it sounds like he would feel you up at night. You obviously dont want that too happen. What ever you choose to do make sure you are safe. Nothing is more important then your safty.
2006-09-26 14:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he trys something, say no. If you are not ready and I can tell that you aren't, then he will respect that. If he doesn't, then you need to be careful. Watching a movie and fallin asleep on the couch or something like that is ok and nothing should happen, but if you are talking bout the same bed, I say no.
2006-09-26 14:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should. He is telling you that he doesnt want to now, but when you are laying next to him, he will get turned on and will want something else and then you will get in a huge argument that may even split you. Trust me, you should wait a little longer. Unless you are ready to give it up, you should not sleep in the same bed. That's like waving meat at a lion and not expecting to get attacked when you dont give it to it.
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2006-09-26 14:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex IS on his mind so becareful. That doesn't mean he's going to take advantage of you, just that he definately wants to be "intimate". Really, you haven't been together long enough to merit the kind of emotional exchange that he's suggesting so I wouldn't recommend it. Keep it simple and give it much more time. Make him exhibit self-control physically & emotionally (and you should do the same).
The concern you have is a good one and it shows that your thinking ahead so keep it up and you'll learn how to build solid, strong relationships!
2006-09-26 14:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Spugsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI-first of all you are only 15 years old. You have plenty of options out there!! Boys will come and go, but your friends are always there. If I were-I would wait. If he really cares about you for who you are-then sex doesn't matter. I was 17 before I lost my viriginity. There are alot of cautions you need to follow with sex. You can get pregnant the 1st time you have sex. That's all it takes is one time. Be careful and use wise judgement.
2006-09-26 14:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should do anything that you are confused about. I know that he says that nothing else will happen but I'm sure he is going to try. Do not do anything until you are ready. You will know when you are ready to have sex. If you are confused you are definitely not ready. Good Luck!
2006-09-26 14:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're asking the question, you already know it's not the right thing for you to do. Tell him that you're not ready to be in that situation, even though nothing's planned other than sleeping. If he cares, he'll understand and wait until you're ready to move further.
2006-09-26 14:23:24 · answer #11 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋