Right, well I joined a dating agency a couple of weeks back (I know, my dignity is now gone) and I found some women's profiles that I really liked. So I sent one an email or two to her because we seem really suited but I haven't recieved a response after a week. What is more likely; she has just not seen them? or she did not like what she has seen and just ignored the emails? Gimme ur thoughts because it is kind of lingering on my mind.
2006-09-26 07:13:33 · 47 answers · asked by Knight-wing 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
perhaps she never got them...I would hope that if she weren't interested that she would have the decency to let you know. Afterall you are paying for services through the dating agency...why keep someone hanging on a string?? I would move on to someone else who piques your interest--don't put all your stock into just one lady.
Best of luck to you...
2006-09-26 07:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first things first one week is not long to worry she may have recieved thousand well a few replies and is working through them one at a time which is more like the answer as not every one checks email ever day.
If she did not like you so what knothing vetured knothing gained her loss not yours. Not a nice lady not to reply and ignore you in the first place if this is what she is doing.
She may be married or in a relationship and did it for a laugh. I know that is harsh and not nice but I do know women who do this just for the kick and to see who and what they attract.They then compare note disgusting but they are sad individuals and will one day get found as I have warned them. It is not just men who play around like that women do to I am ashamed to say.
Anyway good luck and do not feel bad about joining an agency fair play to you for doing it and if I was single I would join something like that at my age.
2006-09-26 07:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) hey. stop worrying about people who aren't giving u the time of day. when she responds, she responds. if she doesn't, she doesn't. it's no bother for you! u don't even KNOW this girl!
so, my advice to u is (and i've been on these sites in the past):
work on ur confidence. make sure u are a great guy, confident in how u Look, how u Feel, how u Treat a lady, how u Converse, how u Think, etc etc u get the picture. when u meet these women, be as articulate, kind and good natured as possible. soon u'll realize that u get to Pick and Choose from all these great (or not so great) strangers to keep in touch with, and maybe take it to the next level. until then, don't take anything harshly or negatively; it's not good for ur ego. just let negative things go, don't waste ur time. only seek what is Positive and makes u happy, but in a good way, a healthy way. and again, make sure You are a Positive, Good person, so u can attract those kinds of people. good luck! i'm sure u'll have so much fun meeting people in general, that soon u'll start meeting people in the "normal" way as well!!! that's what happened to me~~ i kinda ended up using the dating site to kickstart my confidence in my personality, and ability to meet and greet strangers and have good conversation. it completely helped me to do that when i met friends of friends, etc, and i met my ex boyfriend thru a friend, and now my current boyfriend at church, so i have no need for the dating sites anymore! :)
2006-09-26 07:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by tarmee2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is interesting. i have a male single friend on a dating site and also a single female friend. They both react very differently to emails and contact with other people on the sites. The man is very much like yourself - sees someone they like, emails and then wonders whats going on. The female friend of mine will check it every couple of days and always respond to those she is interested in. However, if she is communicating with someone at the time, wont get 'involved' with someone else too. Whereas, the male friend of mine will....
So I am not sure I am answering your question, but I think people treat these emails/contact etc in different ways. Its just like the old 'how long do I wait for him to call/call him' scenario. I think you just need to use your judgement. Perhaps one more email and then call it a day?
2006-09-26 07:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by NikkiJane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either. Most likely not interested. But dont sweat it, there are plenty more out there.
No dignity lost...I met my b/f on the internet at a dating site True.com we just celebrated our 1 yr anniversary. I now live in a different town and have a great life. Just hang in there and take your time. Not everyone is who they say they are so make lots of coffee dates and enjoy yourself.
It's always when you aren't looking that you find what you really need!
2006-09-26 07:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be all kinds of reasons. Maybe she is on a long holiday to the Bahamas, or she is really busy at work, maybe she has not checked her mail yet, or is having browser problems.
Don't think there is something weird about what you send her. Doubt doesn't bring you any further. Just give it one other go, and if then she still doesn't answer, move on and forget about her.
2006-09-26 07:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of those sites you can see when the last time someone has logged on, chances are that if she has logged on recently, then she is not interseted, Sorry buddy but it is for the best as far as I am concerned most of those people are very shallow and not really concerned with actually seriosly getting to know someone, they are into just face value and a cheap online thrill
2006-09-26 07:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by kristee m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is serious about this dating agency thing and she didn't respond after a week then she probably is not interested. Or perhaps she has received a TON of e-mails and she's sorting them out. Try sending her one more and see what happens.
2006-09-26 07:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe it's her first time to date online and she's worried about meeting a real weirdo. Look at the bright side atleast you can still meet someone that is interested in you. More than likely if she hasn't responded in a week she's probably already found another match that she feels is more suitable for herself.
2006-09-26 07:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sent the emails a week ago, and haven't received any response, I would send one more, and in it I would state that you haven't received a reply, and just wanted to make sure she was getting them. If she doesn't reply to this one, let it go and move on. Good luck.
2006-09-26 07:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋