This is the second guy I have benn with that tryed the same thing.The other night ny bf and I had a couple of drinks. After that we were in bed and just at the time of his excitement he tryed to do it all over my face. I don't mind if he just did this on my stomach or something. But why in the face?
Why do guys do this, Do they think we like it?
2006-09-26 07:13:15 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys love this, and many women do to. I happen to be one of the ones, that prefer it to go all over my face. You need to tell them right away when it starts getting to that point, that face shots are not acceptable, that he can do it anywhere else but the face. They should respect that, and you need to be assertive enough to be able to tell them.
2006-09-26 07:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a sign of disrespect. The face is a very personal part of the body, I think even more so for a woman because our face is something we go to great lengths to take care of. It is often how we view ourselves. When assaults happen the first thing attempt at bodily harm is usually about aiming for the face. If you were to attack a man the most vulnerable spot would be his testicles. Next time he does this tell him you want to insult him where it counts the most. This man needs to learn some respect.
2006-09-26 07:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a guy who has watched a lot of porn.
In porn the "money shot" is when the guy goes off all over the girl.
If the girl is doing oral then its usually all over the face.
This is also a way of degrading the girl and letting her know she is really nothing more than just a thing he is using to sexually gratify himself. She is a tool and nothing more. She is to be used and when done left to clean herself up.
You need to let him know what you do like and what you don't like. If you don't like this tell him (sometime when you are alone and outside the bedroom). If he continues to do it - well for one.. don't let him.. get up or push him off. You need to stand up for yourself or you will become that tool he thinks he is using.
2006-09-26 07:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is the deal ladies, it's a turn on for a guy to do that, it' not that he is trying to degrade you it is a sign of affection if a girl allows you to do this it says to him that she cares for me so much she has no problem where i squirt my junk. That is all it wipes off and no one will know except you and him. It's a great way to show you care. just tell him to keep it out of the hair. better yet beat him to the punch and tell him to squirt it in your mouth. he will be head over heels for you after that. trust me.
2006-09-26 07:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont c what the big deal is , its ok 4 u females 2 sit there and have your juices flow over our face when we give u pleasure but ohh god forbid that we want 2 give u a sperm perm we cant , who do u think u r acting above the mighty man, thats a crock. u should become a member that enjoys the same sex, or get over it.
2006-09-26 07:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is exciting for men to do things a little more outrageous than we women might think is ok. It isn't hurting anyone, just don't get it in your eye. That hurts. But if you are totally uncomfortable tell him neck down is all baby!
2006-09-26 07:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a facial...and many perople , men and women enjoy it. It's not for everyone and your man should respect that. Just tell him, when you're not in bed, that you don't enjoy this. Unless he really is seeking to degrad you and has no interest in your preferences he will understand.
p.s. never go to a bukake show...lol
2006-09-26 09:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by arosehasthornns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell u da truth,,if this guy had any form of respect whatsoever towards u,,he would not have done it in the first place,unless u consented to,although it all a matter of fetish that these dudes has,it should never be done without consent,i would have dumped him right way or look at him with other perspective for now
2006-09-26 07:16:47 · answer #8 · answered by brasil_mulher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the slutiness that we like (no offence). It indicates a woman's total desire to be sexual, and if she is willing to do that we are rewarded in some sort of way. I personally like to give a "pearl necklace" or a "field goal" myself.
2006-09-26 07:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by cormelmat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this point, you can likely point most of the blame on the net. they've likely seen it in internet porn, & want to duplicate what they've seen & possibly even perceived as a common sexual practice. if you don't like it, tell him what he can do & what you prefer he not do. he should not only be respectful of your preferences, but also appreciative for what you continue to share with him. i know i would !
2006-09-26 07:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋