Curse for me so far. Girls told me they don't want to go out with someone better looking than themselves. I disagree. I mean, come on - this is silly.
2006-09-26 07:12:10 · 31 answers · asked by netwalker01 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is both.
Old wives tale says marry someone not as pretty as you then they have less of a temptation to stray. Other woman will not tempt them as much.
Sometimes also the pretty ones sit at home because everyone thinks that they are taken.
2006-09-26 07:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by blueyes2001 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe good looks can be BOTH a blessing and a curse. I feel like I am a decently attractive woman, and I believe it has helped me in some strange ways. For instance. I believe it has helped me get jobs before (when the job in question has NOTHING to do at all with physical appearance). In that particular case, my looks were a blessing to me, but a curse to anyone else applying for the job. Know what I mean? As far as attracting the opposite sex, looks are not nearly as powerful as self-confidence. So, if you are SUPER confident in your looks, women may be turned off by your "ego", rather than your looks. And an average woman who has a very confident self image might match you better than a pretty, but self-doubting, type lady. I guess just look at it like this. If a lady doesn't want to be with you, she doesn't want to be with you, no matter WHAT her reasons are. Don't sweat it, and be sure to develop all aspects of your personality, just in case your looks start to slip with age. :)
2006-09-26 07:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by stillstanding 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's defintely a blessing and a curse. I had to deal with this type of bull my whole life. and I still do. Being picked on and being treated unfairly just because of my looks. It's not like good looking people actually put in requests to their parents while being formed in the womb to look good. It's sad to hate on someone because of their looks, a person can't help that. These girls just can't handle beauty and feel like the girl that looks better will get all the attention. It's all about attention and they want plenty of it. I don't apologize for anything and I like to surround myself with good people in general no matter what they look like.
2006-09-26 07:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If these are the kind of questions your asking, then,
1. it's your personality thats cursed, not your looks
and
2. because of this fact, those girls were just lying to make you feel better
2006-09-26 07:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jacquie G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a curse. I've dealt with the same issue concerning men. It is silly.. I think it's more of an intimidation thing with men though.
2006-09-26 07:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a curse. Being stalked 24/7 isn't nice.
2006-09-26 07:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by septiant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good looks are a gift. If other girls get jealous, they got some issues to work on. You don't want to go out with girls that only judge others by their looks, come on who needs brainless friends, your not just a body!
2006-09-26 07:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by Louise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good looks is a blessing but vanity is a curse.
2006-09-26 07:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Both a blessing and a curse.
2006-09-26 07:15:00 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋