2006-09-26 06:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by faye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It may not be that you don't miss her, just that you have accepted the fact that she is gone. Sometimes when we come to that realization, the missing aspect diminishes. There is nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-26 06:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Naomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You provided no real details so we don't know how well you got along with her. It's a bit surprising that you don't miss her at all - not even a little bit?? But if you had a bad relationship, that would be understandable.
My mother in law passed away this month after a 6 month battle with two cancers. My husband seems OK with it so far - I mean, I know he misses her but he hasn't gotten emotional since the funeral. I've been waiting for him to cry or something, but nothing is happening.
Everyone grieves different. Some people go through hell when a relative dies - be glad you feel OK and are able to function.
2006-09-26 06:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is not any longer something incorrect with you for no longer crying. human beings grieve of their very own recommendations. your mom had that cat for a lengthy time period so it changed into likely like dropping a good buddy in a fashion. she likely raised it from a kitten and watched it advance and change into area of her daily existence. she loved that cat. and if she had the cat in the previous any of you childrens were born it ought to sound extraordinary yet that changed into like your father and mom first toddler at the same time. she'll be ok time will heal her heart. i comprehend you loved your cat and in no way crying does no longer mean you your a cold hearted man or woman. merely hug your mom or maybe as she's waiting per chance you could make a touch memorial album for the cat or some position contained in the backyard or lower back backyard to pay tribute to the cat. perchance even asking your mom to save in ideas different humorous stuff the cat used to do.
2016-12-02 02:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by rodges 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom died in 2003 of lung cancer. I do miss her but not that bad.
See, time heals all wounds. Eventually the pain passes into history and you only remember the good things. It's not bad, just natural.
2006-09-26 06:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was a blessing she went to another place. Some people are not close with their mothers. Did you two have a bad relationship? Sorry you feel bad for not missing her...do you think she misses you?
You cant change, you feel what you feel.
2006-09-26 06:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by k-mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! People grieve in different ways. You're over it and have moved on. Some people take years to mourn the death of a loved one others take days or months.
2006-09-26 06:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad that my father died five years ago and I still can't get over it and I keep wishing that my mother had died instead.
2006-09-26 06:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. As time goes by we have to get over the loses in our lives.
Your Mom understands and expects you to go on with your life and be happy . She just expects you to be a good and decent person.
Do not dwell on it, go on with your life and think of her with love on Mothers day and Her birthday.
Once we die we expect the ones we love to go on with their lives and be happy.
God Bless
2006-09-26 06:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. People grieve in different ways. Having happy memories insead of sad is much better. You also have your own life to live.
2006-09-26 06:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by nysmarksilfen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you lost your Mom.
They say that God could not be everywhere so he made Mothers.
You cant say you miss her, her soul also is missing your prayers to her soul.
You pray for her soul to rest in peace by praying to her in front of her photo daily.
2006-09-26 07:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by SKG R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋