I was with this girl who loved me more than anything. I dont think i could find another girl that could love me that much. But we had some compatibility issues and I was never sure if I only loved her or was IN LOVE with her. It felt so good to have her love me like that but I couldnt be happy. Why couldnt her love make me happy?
2006-09-26 06:38:09 · 24 answers · asked by patrick U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she was needy and made you the focus of her need. Her being all into you meant that you were required to respond in kind.
I love my husband, but I also love that he's self-sufficient, smart, funny and has great integrity. Sure, I could be in love with him because we're compatible, but if he never had an original thought or were unable to take care of himself, I'd would have never married him. Notice I didn't say anything about money, just the idea that he's a grown up and knows how to take care of himself.
2006-09-26 06:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you din't love her the same way,maybe she felt good just by knowing that she had you ,but whenever you fall in love even if the other person does not feel the same way you will still feel happy just by knowing the other person is there.... and yes you will find some one that will love you more as much as she did,,, but the only thing that you should do is find true love you dont want to be with her all your life then realized that you never love her,,, what do love means to you? is it every time you go to sleep at night you think about her?or is it the fact every morning when you wake up she the first thing you think of? or every night when you close you eyes she is the last thing you think of? ask your self what is love?
2006-09-26 13:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be multiple reasons. I am a dude that has been married twice and I currently live with another woman. I ran away from every relationship until I got into my current one. This girl does less for me than any of my ex wives or ex girlfriends I had. She just seems to fit with what I am thinking. We have are ups and downs but at the end of the day we understand each other. So my advice is that if she does not do it for you let her go and find what makes you happy.
2006-09-26 13:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Clyde R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone then it doesnt matter the way the person reponds to it just as long as she is showing it. love is so many different things. i mean ive been that way. maybe you are tired of the same o same o things that is going on in the relationship either you want to be with someone else or you cant be with only one girl at on time. maybe she was trying to hard to show you she loved you. maybe it was just to hard for you to see that she really did love you, i know what you mean it feels good to have someone to love you back but later on in the relationship she will get bored of the same o same o if she love you tell her prove it. maybe that will help. i hope this helps for you because just for me to write this brings me back memories. have a happy life.
2006-09-26 13:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by SiSi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny thing.... I was in love with a guy that felt just like you do. Every guy I knew wanted to date me....but I loved the one that didn't love me back. He never had a good answer either. You may never know why. However, it's been years and he regrets letting the love I offered him go. He never found another me.
2006-09-26 13:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by loyal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are, you felt you couldn't love her as much as she loved you...and you knew that, and subconciously felt that no matter how much she loved you, you just couldn't feel the same. Not your fault, you need that strong love towards the other person to be happy...YOUR love for her makes you happy, not what she can do to or for you to show her love.
2006-09-26 13:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is much more to a relationship than love. There is respect, compassion, friendship, responsibility, and the list goes on. Somewhere you were missing one of these in order to feel like your relationship was complete. If you don't know whether or not you love her, don't lead her on.
2006-09-26 13:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the song by Patty Smythe goes :Someimes love just aint enough". And its not. Being friends and having similar morals,goals,ideas. Being compatible is key. Great sex is key. Great sex dosent automaticaly happen bc theres love.
2006-09-26 13:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, love should not be the only thing that matters because there are other things in life.
2006-09-26 13:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Teshema M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We could love someone that is not good for us. It is in our best interest that we walk away when this happens. People divorce all the time that say "I still love her/him"
2006-09-26 13:43:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋