I am dating a girl who tells me she loves me and Im everything she ever wanted but when we are out like the other night at the movies she is checking out other guys. Im not mad about her checking them out because we are all visual creatures but there is a point you can stop at. We see these guys goofing off at the ticket window and when I look back at her she is totally drawn to them. We sit down in the movie and she is checking them out as they walk past us. She watches them go all the way to there seat. Then during the movie she keeps looking over at them to see there reaction to the scene instead of checking to see mine. She did the whole turn your head and scratch routine 3 times or more. Then I look over at her as if I was checking to see her reaction to the movie and she gets defensive and says 'Im not checking them out" I was like "I didnt say you did dont get so defensive", but she was the whole time. Should I be worried that this girl is still looking for another guy?
2006-09-26 06:38:08 · 15 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does she do this every where ya'll go? I wouldn't say she is looking for another guy but it sounds like she is looking too much. do you look at other women when she is around? she could be doing it just to get you back. I'd ask her why she is doing it so much. tell her if she wants another man she needs to let you know so she wont be wasting her time and your time.
2006-09-26 06:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's tough, i am in the same situation, kinda, except i have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, he is constantly looking at other girls, it makes me feel disrespected and that maybe he is looking because he has not found what he is looking for, he tells me he loves me and that i am the only one for him, but then why keep looking.
Its ok when you see a good looking person and you look but to stare like your girl and then to get defensive-uh-uh, let her go, i guess i should take my own advice uh? Good Luck to ya
2006-09-26 13:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Big D's Sexy Peach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be angry if my girlfriend was checking out other guys. Whether you talk it through or not and whether she stops doing it or not, the worrying thing for me would be the fact that she had the desire to do it in the first place…
2006-09-26 13:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by absolutely_fabulous_78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if she's being completely obsessive watching these guys and getting defensive when you don't even say anything, it makes me wonder what she's doing when you're not around. Keep an eye on her, and her eye.
2006-09-26 13:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to talk to her about it...say that it bugs you and if she can't stop, then you should be able to check out other girls...she respects you for tht but she is too insecure to herself that if things dont work out between you and her, she has backup...i am sry but it is true
2006-09-26 13:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by hawaiigrl33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her during intermission
2006-09-26 13:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing next time you go out. If she complains smack her. That is how I handle my women.
2006-09-26 13:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely doesn't sound good. I would move on before you have too much invested
2006-09-26 13:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Dump her or at least become less available.
2006-09-26 13:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she sounds like she is getting ready to dump you
2006-09-26 13:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋