2006-09-26 05:57:06 · 25 answers · asked by NHBaritone 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
no one humiliates you, you humiliate yourself and revenge against self is not possible for me :)
2006-09-26 06:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Siddhartha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have found the best way to get revenge when someone has humiliated me is to pray resentment prayers for them.
And what is a resentment prayer? I pray for that person exactly what I want for myself. Simple? Definitely effective. Do I always remember to pray the resentment prayer for the person who has humiliated or wronged me? No, seems like I had rather wallow around in the misery.
Guarantee: when I pray what i want for myself for another person who has wronged or humiliated me---the effect is wonderful---those feelings, you know the ones of hatred---they quickly go away and are replaced with Peace of Mind.
Sometimes the offense can be almost diabolical or the memory continues to linger and linger. I have a choice: either wallow around in misery or pray the resentment prayer for the person.
2006-09-26 13:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible for someone to successfully humiliate you unless you first put yourself in a compromising position. I tend to avoid those compramising positions, so whenever someone *attempts* to humiliate me, I establish a snotty, better-than-you attitude, use cutting yet non-offensive words to make the person trying to humiliate feel about 3 feet tall while imitating them as best I can. A funny limerick about them is sometimes added for extra "Spice." When they lose their cool, everyone gets to see them for who they really are. In other words, I make it backfire.
2006-09-26 13:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by digitalquirk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I am not easy humiliated, heck I do it to myself most of the time and revenge seems petty.
2006-09-26 13:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Katy_Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never gotten revenge on someone personally; though people who've crossed me DO have a funny habit of having horrible stuff happen to them immediately afterward. To date, we've had:
1.) One business go belly-up,
2.) One heart-attack,
3.) One divorce,
4.) Three people fired from their jobs,
5.) And one person had his daughter die on the operating table during a simple tonsilectomy.
Best not to p!ss me off, you see.....
2006-09-26 13:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if someone humiliates u then the ans isnt always revenge u should try n be the bigger person hre.
2006-09-26 13:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by green day chick. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy! Humiliate them back.
2006-09-26 12:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I got a DIY revenge kit on EBay that works real good.
2006-09-26 12:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not since I became Buddhist 4 years ago. I forgive and move on.
"Hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love, this is the eternal rule"
- Buddha -
2006-09-26 13:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Shinkirou Hasukage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get revenge. It's a waste of my time.
2006-09-26 13:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by AuroraDawn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋