Im 16 yrs. old and my mom is moving to Arkansas In December, so she can be with her boyfriend, Me and my little sister dont. want to go because we feel whenever she is with him shes always locked in her room with her we dont ever see her.about a year ago he lived with us here in greeley,Co.we were doing fine for the first couple of mnths. then my mom started always staying in the room not paying any attention to me or my little sister. I got in a little arguement over something i went with my grandma then when i came back home my mom didn't really talked to me well later on her boyfreind had moved to arkansas without telling my mom he took all of his stuff and all of our money he then called my mom as soon as he got there. my mom got back with him after we got back on our feet. and now she wants to move over there with him me and my little sister do not want to go but she wont let us stay with my grandma or any family member.what can i do? we feel like we dont know who she is any mor
2006-09-26 05:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Always_In_Tears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
HI!
Talk to your Grand Mother and see if she will let you live with her. Explain your concerns.
2006-09-26 05:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell ur mom that it is best for u guys to stay with grandma... and grandma needs to speak out too... It seems like ur mom pays more attention to the bf than u guys. I think that's stupid. I hope that ur grandma can work something out with ur mom. I don't think u will have a good life with her and the bf. Hope everything works out ok. Well if u want I'm here to talk ok
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2006-09-26 05:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your grandma talk to her for you sometimes another adult can make them see the light better then a child. If you do have to move to Arkansas though you will find it's not such a bad place to be I love it here... Good Luck and if you do end up having to move here sign up for activities in school that will keep you busy just make a life for yourself outside of your mothers
2006-09-26 05:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom and tell her you how you feel. If you can talk to your Dad or another trusted relative. I know what it's like to feel alone but maybe your mom doesn't realize how you feel.
You probally have to move with her, unless your parents share joint custody then you father can try to get custody of you. It's not simple to change a custody arrangement.
2006-09-26 05:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by chicki3030 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily id say enable it flow... i keep in mind that sounds undesirable yet she is how she is and all of your going to do is make your self sick annoying about her. i'm no longer declaring end all contact, nevertheless confer with her, visit ECT. yet supply ger area ultimately shell comprehend what she has to do. After the divorce it type of appears like she holding on to those human beings reason she did not favor to be left on my own again and she or he'll make excuses for him why he did it.
2016-11-24 20:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by vaibhav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Grandma wants you to stay with her then get her to seek legal help. It don't sound like you need to be with your moms boy friend. Good luck and God bless. Prayer helps.
2006-09-26 05:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. It would be best to talk with your Grandma about what is going on. Hopefully, she can talk with your mom and work things out. Good luck to you ...
2006-09-26 05:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by RedCloud_1998 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your mom , no matter wht she will come around just be there 4 her shes always been there 4 you she needs you with her even if you think she dont.she loves you !
2006-09-26 06:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing is leave her alone because she don't look after u she have a new life ....SO u look aft her Ur self ....be case tomorrow Ur g.mum here .....our she die ....SO what happen ..... u look aft her Ur self .....make a mind to look aft her Ur self and Ur sis too......if Ur in England ....then me bee govt help u....like money....or job....or house......
2006-09-26 06:00:19 · answer #9 · answered by zubi_mir211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do. You're not an adult. That means you have to do what your parents tell you.
2006-09-26 06:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋