I was sitting her thinking that maybe I would like to find a few of the guys I had crushes on in high school....esp. wondering about the one who went to jail for robbery.
Would you look up an old flame just for pete's sake? Or should I just let it go--
2006-09-26 05:25:49 · 21 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the old flame has a prison record, I'd leave well enough alone. There's pleanty of guys out here with "clean records". Why don't you give some of us a play? I'm available....what's up?
2006-09-26 05:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly speaking, if you're not asking for trouble, you shouldn't
make any move to look up an old "flame", especially the one
who went to jail for robbery. It's better to let bygones be bygones
and you should just let it go and don't think about it. You need to look into the near future and seek out new friendships.
Take your time to find someone who cares and understands
you.
2006-09-26 12:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think there is a possibility that the old flame ended up in jail it is best not to look them up.
Do you really want to get involved with someone who might of ended up in trouble. It will only bring you into his drama.
There are some guys that I would like to look up. I wonder if they are happy but I am not to sure if my Husband would appreciate it.
2006-09-26 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by lajefa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've actually looked up a guy that I had a crush on in Middle school and now we are on the verge of dating.. We've been talking a while but I wanted to make sure that it was the fact that I liked him way back in the days and it's really me liking him now. So I think that you should do it you never know what will happen
2006-09-26 12:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO!!!! Trust me the guy never ends up being who you though he was. Remember people change over time and chances are that what you found attractive in him a while ago you may not find so attractive now.
I contacted a guy that I had a relationship with 6 years ago...I spent 6 years idealizing him and comparing every guy I met to him and when I finally saw him again he was no longer attractive and he was such a jerk!!!
Good luckQ
2006-09-26 12:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the jail guy, but I would and have looked up old flames. Why not, nothing beats a failure but a try.
2006-09-26 12:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by onedzire27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why u mention the robbery, unless that's important to you. But otherwise, why not. I certainly would, even have while still taken with someone else. I always remained friends with those I've had relationships with. No. go for it.
2006-09-26 12:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tall Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear
thatz really a good question. well you should defiently look forward toward old friends and try to grab those happy and worst memories. It will defintly enlightin you so go ahead and enjoy your life as you want too,
take care!!!
2006-09-26 12:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by Victor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried to look up an old flame...not because I like her anymore, but because I really wanted to have sex with her...I turned her down before, but now I want my piece.
2006-09-26 12:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by wade b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I torched my old flame and burned it to the ground in ashes.
2006-09-26 12:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋