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im really depressed i know why but i can cure it my depression is over a girl i was cutting myself and attempting to commit suicide i was put in the hospital and prescribed anti-depressants and something to make me more allert but my depression keeps coming back i know its because i still love this girl and want to be with her but i dont want to be depressed anymore

2006-09-26 05:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by Jonathan S 1 in Health Other - Health

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under the care of a doctor is good, keep on going, in the mean time, your depression will not just vanish, you need to get out and laugh... go see a comedy, call up a close friend, find a hobby, go fishing, do something out of the ordinary for you just to occupy your mind. It will take time to get over the depression, but continue on your meds, and keep yourself as busy as you can, give yourself a lot of time to heal, and eventually it will go away. Be strong!

2006-09-26 05:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0 0

First of all, before I write anything, I want you to know you are not alone. What I am writing is based on my own personal experiences and my own battle with depression. It sounds to me like you are not on the right medication. You need to talk to a qualified counselor. Preferably a Psychotherapist or Psychiatrist. A psychiatrist can get you the proper perscription that you need and you need to make sure you take it everyday, even if you are feeling better. Once you have your medication straightened out, then you will be able to deal with the feelings you are having better. In the meantime, go see a qualified professional, they can teach you ways to cope with these feelings and monitor your medication. I would think that since you are already on medication, that you already have a professional involved. I urge you to call them right now and let them know you are still feeling extremely depressed, especially if you are still having feelings of suicide. They are here to help you. Let them help you. You obviously want help or wouldn't have posted this question. Please call your doctor. They do have medication they can help you today. Most of all remember that you are not a bad person and having to take medication doesn't mean you are a bad person or crazy. Depression is a very complex desease and it takes a few different things to cure it. There are thousands and thousands of people depressed and on medication, probably several people you already know. You didn't put your age. If you are not an adult, go to an adult you know will help you. I hope this helps.

2006-09-26 12:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by t f 2 · 0 0

You didn't say whether or not you had counseling or not. Presuming you haven't try to check into that. I'm not going to tell you it's going to cure you but from my previous experience it helps to talk it out. even if it's not a counselor, friends help to, get it out there about how you are feeling people who know you care about you and you need to get out & do things that make you happy. Maybe right now while you're in this depression you can't think of anything happy, but you know that before this girl entered your life you had fun things you enjoyed doing. I really hope that this helps some for you.

2006-09-26 12:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by jessnurse06 1 · 0 0

In time, the girl won't matter anymore, but your mental and emotional health will. Train yourself that when she enters your mind, immediately get immersed in something else. And stay on the antidepressants. Keep in touch with your doctor. No more cutting, please. A relative close to me did this and now she's ashamed of the scars and has forgotten why she felt such dispair.

2006-09-26 12:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by beez 7 · 0 0

Dear heart. Please know that suicide is a permanent solution. There is more than one girl that can make you happy. Time will heal your heart. Cutting is not the answer either. I know that you feel a release, but there are other options. I hope that you talk to a professional to give you more. There are people who care about you and would miss you terribly. Please understand that you can and will get through this.

2006-09-26 12:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by croc hunter fan 4 · 0 0

depression is all in your head. Just calm down, try to put your mind on something else. Or just sleep w/someone that should get it out of your system.

2006-09-26 12:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I suspect it's not the girl so much as how the girl made you feel when you were together.

It's hard to believe, but other girls (and even other activities outside dating) can make you feel happy.

Get a little adventurous and explore the options.

2006-09-26 12:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0 0

Unfortunately, love hurts whenever it isn't returned back to you.... I suggest that you try...to move on... bear in mind, you were living without her before you met her and therefore, you can live on... you just need to MOVE ON...

As for depression, I believe a doctor is needed... BUT when ever you do, PLEASE PLEASE don't commit SUICIDE...

2006-09-26 12:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by mumblewords 2 · 0 0

Your not in love you are obsessed and need to get over her that is not healthy.

2006-09-26 12:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0 0

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