I just realised that it did not even work when I decided to let my ex be my friend. He still uses my comfor for his security, but when it comes to mine, he is so cold. But he still wants to keep me as his agony aunt! Tell me to make him realise that he has been misunderstanding in a big time!
2006-09-26 04:30:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has just called me to say sorry at 1:03 in the morning! (we have we can call anytime rule).. He was saying he has such a big affection and respects. He asked me if he bothered me and I said no and explained that I was only having fun writing my essays and drawing. I told him to smile and be happy, he told me that he needs enough sleep to do that. I told him to go and get some sleep in that case, but he said he wanted to have a comfort and company of me after a long day... Then when I was explaining some things about my hobbies after he asked me, he said, "ok, ... good night...thank you..", he is living his life as if the world has been made for him!
2006-09-26 05:04:02 · update #1
Ignore him Totally.
2006-09-26 04:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Muttama 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exes can not be friends. It never works. Not unless you spend time apart for a while to let all of the feelings dissolve. Just stay away from him and act like you don't care. Revenge is not worth it. It doesn't get you anywhere it just causes more problems.
2006-09-26 11:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by a d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the answer is easy, doing it however is hard.
1. CUT ALL TIES WITH HIM- no contact, no nothing
2. FOCUS ON YOU NOT HIM- Look to better yourself and don't worry about him.
3. LIVE LIFE WELL- Do all the right things and don't rub salt in any wounds.
The best revenge is when you show him that he means nothing to you and you moved on past him. Good luck.
2006-09-26 11:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is living well. Go out and do different activities that he does not do and meet someone new. When he sees how well you are doing he will disappear in a stew!
2006-09-26 11:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by moronirocks2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take granted of his..you cant fight fire with fire... so fight fire with water.. What does he have that he's so so so proud of?
Money? Good work place? Good family ? Good friends?
If anything of those or others.. go bug them...
for instance if he has a lot of money.. since he uses u for his security and comfort(obviously thats your strength) ..use him back..
ask him to buy stuff when he wants to see u..
if he's proud of his work... bug his work..
if he has nice family...bug his family..
if he has nice frends... call up his friends and talk about him..
he will surely want u off... i bet u
goodluck
2006-09-26 11:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he believes he has you on a leash! Like he is making sure you still yearn for him..it seems like torture! Cut him out of your life in every way possible. Don't let him use your computer...hell don't even let him walk through the front door. Cut off communication! This way, you can watch and hear him crumble!
2006-09-26 12:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by pregyfrog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not needed. Move on, not to punish him, but for your happiness. You seem intellegent and caring, find someone who will make you feel special as you seem to be a thoughtful person.
2006-09-26 11:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by mlblue66 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best "revenge" is to just forget about him and move on. Period
Get on with your life, drop him out of yours.
If you are looking for "revenge", then friendship is not what you have anyway.
If he is truly taking you for granted, then not having you will be an eye opener in itself.
2006-09-26 11:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge would be for you to get a new boyfriend and tell him that it's time to move on!
2006-09-26 11:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. When you walk away and leave he will eventually realize what he has lost and that he took you for granted. That will hit him harder than any kind of revenge.
2006-09-26 11:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋